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Author:  smooth99 [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 6:55 pm ]
Post subject:  introducing and helping AFC friends with PUA

firstly i am by no means a pua i am RAFC but am learning the material and getting over my sticking points one set at a time, but last night really opened my eyes as to how different i have become to my friends

firstly i was never bad with women and i was always the go to guy for my mates if they had a problem.

anyway last night i went to the pub with 4 of my mates and two of my girlfriends, solid HB8 and HB9. HB8 im battling my way out of the friend zone lol and the HB9 is a close friends girl so she might aswell be a bloke.

the HB9 brought a friend along a nice HB8.5, when she was introduced i kept very strong eye contact and teased her about only being 17 ( im 18 by the way ) and in a pub. saying that she should stay away from me cause id be a bad influence on her ( what do you think of this false disqualifier by the way ? ). anyway we only had 30 mins but i built up good kino and when she left i pointed to my cheek " kiss it " and she did in front of my mates ( shouldve number closed but meh )

they were shocked. and then one of them said " smooth youve got a gift "

this is when i realised just how big a gap there now is . ONE OF THEMS A MODEL FOR FUCK SAKE !!!!!

so my question what is the best way for me to bring them into the pua community ?

i tried showing them the 5 lies routine and they thought i was a dick even though they had seen it work earlier.

as always anyadvice is appreciated

Author:  Lucky D [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 10:49 pm ]
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Friends friends, you can try hard HARD!! but you can't convince someone to start doing PUA, they have to actively demonstrate interest in the art.

When they're at a point in life where they're willing to join, they will. but you cant force it. IT JUST DON'T WORK!

I have different types of friends.

1) believers : those who believe in the efficiency of developing techniques, and thus have succes with women

2 )non believrs: Those who dont believe a word I say and yet want succes.

3)not yet readys: those who arent willing to abord the subject and won't have any succes for the next 5-10 years

i dont try to bring anybody from 1 group to the next. I just act. and when they decide they're ready, they'll join.

I'd suggest making new friends for pick-up. so you can hang out with ur pick-up friends and u dont have to annoy ur non pick-up friends with all ur theories

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