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| Author: | Junglepimp [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 5:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Interesting Topics to talk about with a girl? |
What are some interesting topics to talk about with a girl? (Aside from the very general: weather, career, health, parents.. and so on). Contributions will be appreciated! |
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| Author: | s3aSon3d [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 5:21 pm ] |
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Bring up contraversial subjects. I love that shit. It gives both of you a chance to genuinely show off your personalities and opinions. If you agree with her: awesome, you already have commonalities. If you disagree, you will definitely have a lengthy conversation and bring out various emotions (so it seems like you've known them for such a long time). Eg. So how do you feel about the fact that a 13 story mosque/community centre might be built right by ground zero in NYC? THIS question is a beaut |
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| Author: | Jav [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 6:06 pm ] |
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sex |
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| Author: | fallout72 [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 6:54 pm ] |
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i do the tattoo thing if shes got any, if she is sentimental in any way they usually mean something to her which escalates the comfort faster. then when she asks me about mine i get all mysterious about what they mean to me and leave her guessing |
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| Author: | Trotyl [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 8:38 pm ] |
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I usually go where the conversation leads me, but if I run out of things to say I usually talk or ask about -dream holidays. -Hobbies and of course try to joke a bit about hers. -Music when a cool song comes up, I'll go like wait shut up, I like this song! You know it? -What would you do with a million dollars? -Who are the 2 most important people in your life? Or who would you take to your dream place if you had to take 2? And don't say me eventhough I'm so cool -Whats the craziest thing you've ever done? -Do you like animals? And which ones? You can of course play games like, thumbs wrestling or a staring contest, be creative and have fun. She'll do stupid stuff if it's fun to do. |
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| Author: | Shyler [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 9:45 pm ] |
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Totally agree with this. Never boring to talk about. And girls like to talk about it! So don't be affraid to start a conversation about sex and relationships.But yes sometimes it's difficult: you're not always aware about what you should talk and mostly I can only talk with girls who interests me or with whom I have a 'click', so that the conversation just naturaly roles. You should always communicate with girls on an emotional level, so do not simply ask where she went on vacation, but also how it feels to be there, how it is to be like on the top of that mountain or to be with your best friends on a summer vacation in Ibiza. When letting her talk emotionaly, you should let her create positive emotions, unless she is talking about her boyfriend The examples who Trotyl gave are pretty good because these will let the girl communicate and think emotionaly, which she will link with you. Conversations shouldn't be logical. Girls also love to talk about themself so ask about them and let them do the talking |
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| Author: | Tundra [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 12:19 am ] |
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have you ever seen the magazines women read? they fuckin love gossip. talk about mutual friends if you have any, work through opinions on their actions to opinions from the girl about anything. |
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| Author: | Flynn [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 2:04 am ] |
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sex and gossiping:D |
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| Author: | Jav [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:00 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: sex
Totally agree with this. Never boring to talk about. And girls like to talk about it! So don't be affraid to start a conversation about sex and relationships.But yes sometimes it's difficult: you're not always aware about what you should talk and mostly I can only talk with girls who interests me or with whom I have a 'click', so that the conversation just naturaly roles. You should always communicate with girls on an emotional level, so do not simply ask where she went on vacation, but also how it feels to be there, how it is to be like on the top of that mountain or to be with your best friends on a summer vacation in Ibiza. When letting her talk emotionaly, you should let her create positive emotions, unless she is talking about her boyfriend The examples who Trotyl gave are pretty good because these will let the girl communicate and think emotionaly, which she will link with you. Conversations shouldn't be logical. Girls also love to talk about themself so ask about them and let them do the talking GUYS you all have to know that he is using this advice to talk to his own girlfriend |
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| Author: | Gstar7 [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 6:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | TOPICS |
DUDE the best topic to roll for is Body language.. Girls dig body language.. tell her bout her BL and then go round the joint (hand in hand KINO WAY) analysing body language.. u have to trust me .. this is very very practical and interesting.. its wat will seperate u frm the 20 other boys who hit on her.. catch my drift bro? exellent! lol I reccomend u reading BODY LANGUAGE written by Allan and Barbara Pease.. i have read this book numerous times and trust me it will help in this topic and various other topics. Peace Gurr |
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| Author: | Shyler [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 9:38 am ] |
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Haha! ... funny you all have to know that he is using this advice to talk to his own girlfriend yeah whatever ... you're totaly right |
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| Author: | Pierce 007 [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 9:49 am ] |
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If your new to this(ish) I find if you ask her about what she does and let her do the talking and then look for opportune moments to interject appropriate negs or DHVs or sexual innuendos as instructed and things that just keep the conversation going, your on to at least better experience than just running out of canned material. Then get her to reject you or give in always dont just flake. |
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| Author: | Junglepimp [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 8:19 pm ] |
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Actually VAJ is right. She's my girlfriend.. We've talked a lot. Days and days full of texts and calls, discussing every little thing that could possibly be discussed. I know I should not have over-talked. Should have kept it short and left when the conversations were at their top. Learning from my mistakes. But yeah.. talking of body language and of sex in a mild way seem like 2 very good ideas. I've stopped having such extended conversations and it seems like the fun is coming back. Yesterday I got things to flow with a "So what are you natural at, aside from dancing (she's a dancer)? My ma was natural at painting.. old man at poetry.. what about you?". There she goes.. bla bla bla bla bla. |
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| Author: | Shyler [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 9:16 pm ] |
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Quote: Actually VAJ is right. She's my girlfriend.. We've talked a lot. Days and days full of texts and calls, discussing every little thing that could possibly be discussed. I know I should not have over-talked. Should have kept it short and left when the conversations were at their top. Learning from my mistakes. But yeah.. talking of body language and of sex in a mild way seem like 2 very good ideas.
I've stopped having such extended conversations and it seems like the fun is coming back. Yesterday I got things to flow with a "So what are you natural at, aside from dancing (she's a dancer)? My ma was natural at painting.. old man at poetry.. what about you?". There she goes.. bla bla bla bla bla. Quote:
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0.oyou all have to know that he is using this advice to talk to his own girlfriend Thought you were trying to diss me, didn't notice you meant Junglepimps girlfriend. Sorry, my bad. Still, I stay with my advice. The controversial subject is also a good advice, as long as you don't let things go too heated. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 5:15 pm ] |
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So how do you feel about the fact that a 13 story mosque/community centre might be built right by ground zero in NYC? THIS question is a beaut
Have you field tested this? At least in the UK we don't really talk about religion or politics unless it's with close friends over a pint or at a dinner party, and even then it's generally avoided. Politics are a very LOGICAL subject, and generally the average club girl on a saturday won't have a sparkling analysis about Iranian foreign policy, and won't want to talk about it to begin with, and religion is something that's a matter of personal belief and can so easily lead to huge disagreements.My favourite topics, in no particular order are: Psychology Travel Childhood experiences 17th Century Moorish Architecture Future ambitions and goals Past relationships, which leads into SEX |
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