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Author:  mcare [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  New at this stuff, How to close

Few things about me before I go to the problem:
- Found out about PUA few weeks ago.
- At this moment I only know few PUA terms and basic techniques
- I'm relativery successful and probably have a bit more interesting lifestyle than average 21yo
- Only real material I watched so far is Blueprint de-coded by Tylet (half way thru)

Ok so I decided to start learning about this stuff on example. I got contacted online (on some forum) by a girl a few days ago. I get this a lot. I'm not rich so I manage to avoid gold diggers but I do have a lifestyle that seperates me from other people my age.

I got her on MSN (I'm actualy not very fond of online "flirting") and it went EXTREMLY well. 20 minutes in conversation I was sure that I'm getting her in bed same day. Conversation was getting hot, I was in the state and she actualy sent me picture of her in lingerie withour me asking for it. And then problem emerges... my age. I'm 21 she's 27 (28?). :roll:

If I talk with girl face to face this is usualy not a problem. They notice that I'm younger but I'm quite Articulate and can display basic value without routines (I don't know any :) ) . But with this girl I could see things cool down very fast. We were still flirting but I felt like it was progressively getting more and more a joke than anything leading to sex.

She initiated conversation with me 2 times during next two days and it always got hot pretty quick.

Question: What next? I can talk to her 20 more times and we'll be confined to flirting (that I actualy can't tell if it's bullshit or not) and nothing more.

The thing is that I won't be able to take her out for a drink for at least a week (I'm busy) so I would like to build as much value as humanly possible so I will be able to fuck-close same day. I would like to avoid any potential problems she's having with my age when we meet (I'm actualy quite a babyface :) ).

Again: This is a case study for me. I'm not in any way attached to end result so I would like you guys to go in the details of whole process, analize my current status with her and options I have. Last but not least how should I handle our first meeting?

Quick edit: I'm actualy finding it a problem that we get to flirting so quick cuz I'm usualy getting past the age problem with a conversation that intelectualy puts me above other guys her age.

Author:  EddieFews [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 4:30 pm ]
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Dude what the fuck?

Who cares about age?

You let that shit throw you off your game.

She's obviously coming on to you strongly so just lay it. Invite her over. She's being direct so go completely direct with her. If she wants sex an your comfy fucking her then do it. Simple. You don't need this website, it's a lot of confusion. If you got women coming on to you already then Your doing fine. Just invite her over. Simple.

Fuze

Author:  Trotyl [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 5:00 pm ]
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I'm asuming she saw your pic before you told her your age? So why would she send you some spicy pictures and all of a turn off just because of age...

If age would be a problem for her then make sure you're not going to public with this 'relationship'. She wouldn't exactly be proud to introduce you to her friends or parents so keep it something just for the 2 of you. Instead of taking her out, suggest a nice dinner at your or her house. Go cook together or whatever, if she accepts such an offer I'm most certain it's on.

There's this chance her logical mind wouldn't want you, but the emotion one obviously does. Don't let it get in your way though, just go for it.

Author:  mcare [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 1:40 pm ]
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Hey guys thanks for your feedback.

Yes she saw my picture before sending me her pics and didn't seem to mind. Like I said I'm more interested in your theories/techniques as I don't doubt this will play out just fine (and to be honest don't really care :) ).

I just wanted to connect theory with practice. I'm busy this week so I'll probably see her in next week so I will probably talk to her at least 5 times and wanted to experiment a bit.

But you are right. I'll just keep it simple. Thanks.

P.s: But if anyone has any idea on what I could try (I am pretty sure I can't say anything so stupid that I'll chase this one away :) so this is the right time to experiment ) lay it on me.

Author:  Trotyl [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:48 pm ]
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Well I'd wanna know how she'd respond to. 'Hey I like those pics, mind doing a webcam show for me ;)'
As for the rest, don't bring up the age again. She won't even think about it anymore if you don't bring it up.

Damn...I need to work on my text/online game...I want a webcamshow :(

Author:  mcare [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:48 pm ]
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Yeah... I tried that as soon as I got her pics :)

She said she'll be getting webcam soon and do a little show for me but to be honest I'm not expecting it to happen. But I'm working on it. Fingers crossed.

Author:  Trotyl [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 5:37 pm ]
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Haha goodluck man.

p.s. you can always share the show :P

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