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| Author: | JOHNNYBOY29 [ Fri Nov 05, 2010 8:34 pm ] |
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How do girls test the interest levels of a guy? Would they reject you asking her out a number of times to see how much you want her? i.e. being chased? If so, do you just ignore it and continue asking? or let it go and if she is in anyway interested she would ask you out? i tend to ask a number of times, only if i have some kind of ioi, but after a while i give up. |
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| Author: | Scyth [ Fri Nov 05, 2010 9:00 pm ] |
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That sounds needy mate. Make her ask you. Show her how amazing you are (if youre amazing that is) then use social proofing, and after a few shows of personal value, they should ask you. |
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| Author: | AFC Royal [ Fri Nov 05, 2010 9:28 pm ] |
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TBH Scyth I've found that unlikely to work. Men make the plans. That's what makes us men. In any case, I've found that girls can figure out our interest levels pretty easily just by us thinking about it. They read body language well. As for rejection, ignore it unless you're in the bedroom trying to escalate. In this case, go back one step and then try again after this. I could give a lot more info, but I'm not sure if I'm answering your question right. Could you clarify? |
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| Author: | JOHNNYBOY29 [ Fri Nov 05, 2010 10:25 pm ] |
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Quote: TBH Scyth I've found that unlikely to work. Men make the plans. That's what makes us men.
Well there is a bit of history - we have gone back and forth a bit. Lately we have been getting closer once again. I always thought I showed enough interest to the point where I have literally told her i liked her. In any case, I've found that girls can figure out our interest levels pretty easily just by us thinking about it. They read body language well. As for rejection, ignore it unless you're in the bedroom trying to escalate. In this case, go back one step and then try again after this. I could give a lot more info, but I'm not sure if I'm answering your question right. Could you clarify? Yesterday we were talking, albeit on the phone, told her that "for what its worth I enjoyed talking to her even though I didnt show it half the time" she responds with " youre wrong, you dont even show it half the time" I ofcourse took that as her saying - show me more interest moreso than your currently showing. She is a bit of an insecure girl and I havent been the knight in shining armour in the past - so was just thinking whether she was testing me? We hang out in the same social circle and whenever i see her I act total cold towards her, not intentionally but maybe out of nervousness. We have gone out a few times just her and I. By the way when I say she has rejected me she has always had a good excuse, like today is Diwali so she couldnt hang out, a couple of weeks ago she had family stuff. |
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