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Author:  Florg [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 2:41 am ]
Post subject:  How to be sexual?

So over the last week I've been trying to talk to a lot of people, just everyone i find a good chance to talk to. I haven't really used a real opener or anything but i can sometimes get a conversation going.

Once i'm talking though what should I talk about? How do i end up making it more sexual and flirty? Because I've noticed the convo usually just sem to be about whatever situation i'm in. (waiting in line for coffee, ect...)

Also, how do you kino without it seeming awkward?

Thanks a lot in advance

~ Florg

Author:  hbsocal [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 7:38 am ]
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Your goal is to go out and touch women, while holding a conversation with them. Once they begin to genuinely participate in the conversation, you can start working some kino in. Your not trying to get it right, your goal is to screw up in some way. Try getting some different reactions, know how to defuse any situation by changing states, NLP helps. But basically see how many ways you can screw up, its a no pressure situation, something you can't screw up, so worst case, you will still succeed and you will gain experience no matter what. Plan ahead a little, just in case you do find the opportunity to get some numbers, always be prepared.

Author:  0uch [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 8:59 am ]
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I agree with the above post. Kino is the key. Been a sticking point for me for long time.

Anyways, like he said, you are gonna screw up. For me, I would not do any kino at all. Then when I start doing it, I would do heavy kino from start which end up creeping the girls out. Point is your gonna screw up but learn from your mistakes. You need to find the balance. Start with light kino and start to go heavy as the girl becomes more comfy with you.

Everyone has there own style. Generally for me, I dont start to kino until I get IOI. With the kino I do push and pull. But like posted above, you need to go out and screw up to truly learn. What really got me at kino fast was winging with guys that were better then me

Author:  Switchmaster [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 9:05 am ]
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Dont be a fucking idiot like this guy ^^

LOL

Author:  0uch [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 10:15 am ]
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^^^Your fucking right I am an idiot.

I only wish I could have stayed home and learn pick up from reading instead of going out and fucking it up.

Author:  Switchmaster [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 10:28 pm ]
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You are quite right, I apologise. Trial and error is the only way to learn, and I did stupid shit when I was learning too.

I was just pointing out, it would be weird and socially unacceptable to just go and "heavily kino" any random girl you talk to.

lol

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