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Author:  Apocalyptica [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 3:55 pm ]
Post subject:  WHAT does it mean if hot girl only has male friends
... an attractive girl can't get along well with other girls?

That is, she has nearly no close female friends.

On the other hand, she's always with boys doing stuff.

I wonder if there's something to deduct out of it. Maybe she's not reliable, or not to trust ? (Girls tend to focus on that if they get along well yes or no)

THANKS!
Author:  Red Rider [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 4:13 pm ]
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I'm not an expert just going on experience, but it could just be they don't like girl friends. Girls are more sensitive, need reassurance, more catty, more emotional, more judgmental and some girls just aren't into that.

If she's an attractive girl maybe other potential friends get a little jealous of her and she's not as sensitive and perceptive as a typical attractive girl who acknowledges and diffuses those negative feelings from their friends so they can get along.

But I'm just guessing.
Author:  Apocalyptica [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 4:26 pm ]
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This is actually a quite interesting topic imo. Ive read this topic about it too:

http://www.theattractionforums.com/gene ... iends.html

Basically, there are many kind of explanations i think:

One could be: she's an unreliable/egoistic/bitchy/attention person. Girls hate that kind of people. So she hangs out with dudes; which is no problem to friend due to the fact they only see her as a target of sex.
Author:  thewannabe [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 5:13 pm ]
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One girl that I like can be described as "unreliable/egoistic/bitchy/attention" ... not sure how to deal with that kind of girl. I feel she is also putting me in the friend zone, although I made progress initially.
Author:  Houseonthehill [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:51 pm ]
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It could mean that she hangs out with mostly males to get consistent validation from guys
Author:  BridgeBurner [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:49 pm ]
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i didnt read the linked topic but from the other posts you pretty much have a good idea.... although there are other reasons i think the main ones are here and awhen combined with each other can be pretty accurate.

a lot of pretty girls are insecure and need constant validation, compliments etc.... this girl is usually an attention whore.. and wants guys looking at her and being told shes hot.... when some dude tries to pick her up, her best "guy " friend will pretend to be her bf... so she feels like she has guys that will fight over her. etc.... the guys feel like they are just helping and being good friend, but obv they want to fuk her but shes so blindly gonna believe they are just good friends and would never want that.........

shes probably a bit of a slut too.. but she wont think she is and will be very offended if you say so.. but the fall back for girls like this when they arent getting the attention of someone they want it from.. is to fuk them.. and get it that way...she can fall in love and all that too but it will be a rough relationship generally...

there are obv underlying daddy issues and other things but if you want to fuk her...... i think the answer is pretty clear on how too.... to get her to go out with you you have to be FUNNNY... then when shes out you have to be funny and NEg neg neg neg... and then give her a bone once in awhile.. then neg neg neg.... do it properly and she will need to fuk you.... she will be attracted to you because shes not used to that kinda guy.....also if you have a job where you are a boss or an authority..... bring it up a bit.l .. "rough day.. had to fire someone and they were pretty nice so kinda sucked " ... will turn her on that you have power... etc....

thats it.. and if you go for a kiss and get rejected.......play it off like" it aint no thang" but stop being funny... dead stop.. she'll ask whats wrong... and say nothings wrong.... want another drink or something..... and she will kiss YOU most likely at this point....after a few mins....


feel it out..
like i said the relationship will be tough and her 'friends' will pretend to like you but will jump on cutting you out at first chance subtley behind your back..

ive had gfs tell people how much they love that i dont compliment them ALL the time... they say its so hot...


but it catches up. they will start to complain that you dont.. even if you are doing it....and say ur a bad bf....... but the real reason is that she if now your gf is spending lotsa time with YOU and not her friends....... shes lost that safety...... and is blaming you for not providing it... in providing it you cut your own legs off with her tho an lose attrcaction..... she needs the attention.. needs it........

like i said.... rough relationship down the road...


another good tell tale sign that the girl youre looking at is THIs type.... she tries to stay friends with all her exes and sees them still... and has slept with 1 or more guys from her work place.....

these girls are for fun... dont fall in love and for GOD SAKE dont try and fix them!! you can not....unless your a therapist and shes willing to work on her issues..
good luck.....
Author:  Apocalyptica [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:56 pm ]
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She is actually my girlfriend.

I rearly compliment her. She doesnt mind.

Actually she's really nice for me and sweet. On the other hand there are all those boys. But we NEVER HAD ANY discussion. Or argument or whatever. She is not difficult.

I dont know what to think of her. I know she likes me, she hangs out with me all the time, but she never SAYS she likes me. She even have problems of saying 'thank you' for something.

Lastly my cousin died, i was really sad. She came over and she was completely clueless; she didnt even say i'm sorry. But I KNOW she was feeling with me. she just couldnt show

i think she has some problems of letting out emotions. in her communications. Fysically she is hugging me really ALL THE TIME.
Author:  BridgeBurner [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 11:03 pm ]
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not being rude here but it sounds like youve been bf and gf for like a week?

are you sure the relationship is what you think it is???


but meh... good luck......

also i said the relationship will TURN that way eventually its usually pretty amazing at first :)
Author:  Apocalyptica [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 11:09 pm ]
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its indeed the very start. Say we are really "together" 2 or 3 weeks.

So even too early to speak of a relationship, however it is. (we are just always together)
Author:  new2game [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 10:42 am ]
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its indeed the very start. Say we are really "together" 2 or 3 weeks.

So even too early to speak of a relationship, however it is. (we are just always together)
Had an old girlfriend who had say.....80-90% guy friends.
I actually confronted her about it and she said "I get along with guys better, woman are bitches"

Lol. nuff said......but she did say girls were only nice to eachother when "in the bathroom" lol
Author:  TheLastWolf [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 10:45 am ]
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its indeed the very start. Say we are really "together" 2 or 3 weeks.

So even too early to speak of a relationship, however it is. (we are just always together)
Had an old girlfriend who had say.....80-90% guy friends.
I actually confronted her about it and she said "I get along with guys better, woman are bitches"

Lol. nuff said......but she did say girls were only nice to eachother when "in the bathroom" lol
That's what my girlfriend said. Until I called her out on her bs.
Author:  lightofhatred [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 10:49 am ]
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Cluster B or a slut usually.
Author:  new2game [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 10:50 am ]
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its indeed the very start. Say we are really "together" 2 or 3 weeks.

So even too early to speak of a relationship, however it is. (we are just always together)
Had an old girlfriend who had say.....80-90% guy friends.
I actually confronted her about it and she said "I get along with guys better, woman are bitches"

Lol. nuff said......but she did say girls were only nice to eachother when "in the bathroom" lol
That's what my girlfriend said. Until I called her out on her bs.
I thought it was B/S too. But after going to parties with her and talking to her BFF (chick btw), i was completely at ease and trusting ;)
Author:  TheLastWolf [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 8:39 pm ]
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Had an old girlfriend who had say.....80-90% guy friends.
I actually confronted her about it and she said "I get along with guys better, woman are bitches"

Lol. nuff said......but she did say girls were only nice to eachother when "in the bathroom" lol
That's what my girlfriend said. Until I called her out on her bs.
I thought it was B/S too. But after going to parties with her and talking to her BFF (chick btw), i was completely at ease and trusting ;)
That's not really what I meant. Of course it is easier for girls to get along with guys. MOST guys are AFC and will be nice to the girl to get in her pants. The girl thinks they are friends, the guy just wants to get in her pants. It's funny how some girls are so oblivious to that fact.
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