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| Author: | Junglepimp [ Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | BORING GIRLFRIEND |
My girlfriend and I usually have pretty dull conversations. One of us will make an exit at some point or the other. Here's some background from this P.o.v: I literally have more than 25 close male friends, ample of female friends, I go out almost more than twice a week, I interact with my friends on a regular basis, I have a large contact base, I study law, I play the guitar, I listen to music, I watch new movies, I read new books.. my entire day is full of activities to the extent that I wish a day had more hours. While my girlfriend is someone who'll prefer to stay at home and read love novels or just get bored all day. She has 3 close friends who she's with, although I believe she's the quieter one around them as well. She goes to occasional parties and stuff, may be watches one or two movies a month. She was this real chirpy girl way back.. but now she's really quiet and reserved. She's quite insecure by nature which she accepts. I believe this transition has been caused due to the apparent weight she has put on which has lowered her self confidence. But she's matured, caring, understanding and intellectual. Now onto our conversations: Usually when I start them, it's with an interesting statement or just something which isn't boring for that setting.. while she'll more often than not start with "So.. how was your day" or just wait for me to start. When we're conversing her replies are usually not very long. In short, she doesn't have too many inputs. Also, our energy levels do not really match as I have a higher energy level and if I try to match hers.. it'll make me fall asleep. The topics which make her talk the most are those related to our relationship, our love and our future, which we've gone through ample of times. BUT, regardless of all that, she has a constant demand for "talking". "Can we talk for a while? Can we talk before sleeping?" and so on.. even while she has nothing to talk about. She has in fact admitted at times that she's a boring person. Once out of insecurity she even called me boring, to which I didn't respond. I can't directly tell her that I get bored of her when we're conversing because I know that'll hurt her.. but then I gotta do it in some way or the other. I love this girl.. the only thing coming in our way is the boredom.. Help me out of this.. what do I do? Do I be the woman and keep on yapping.. or do I let her ask questions which are usually really so-how-are-you types...We've been together for a while and we love each other for who we are.. but then who doesn't want a witty girlfriend? |
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| Author: | Pierce 007 [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 12:02 am ] |
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YAWN! excuse me! But if your on this forum you cant be happy with this situ. Go have some fun with another woman and see if this oneitis goes and you find yourself wanting somwthing else and politely vacate the relationship |
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