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| Author: | The Shoveler [ Tue Nov 02, 2010 4:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl for dinner |
So I am having a girl over for dinner in a few nights who is in a long distance relationship (the boyfriend is in North Carolina, we are in Oklahoma). She has been with the guy for at least a few years, but was eager to accept my dinner invitation. I love cooking and actually do cook all the time, so I told her she should join me one time. We picked a night and now I am not exactly sure how to play this. I have met this girl a few times and there is definitely some sexual tension between us. I usually am fairly forward, but am having trouble deciding how to play it since she has a BF. Any tips/advice/help would be appreciated. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Nov 02, 2010 5:00 pm ] |
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Why are you gaming a girl who you know is in a relationship in the first place? Aren't there enough SINGLE women out there for you to cum on and then cuntpunt into the gutter? |
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| Author: | Wagon [ Tue Nov 02, 2010 5:03 pm ] |
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A bottle of wine can help relax things. Go with your instincts and personal style, if you're fairly forward (which I agree with in these situations) just do what you would usually do. If it were me, I would probably greet her with a hug and be pretty touchy all around. After a few drinks and a good meal then make your move. Assume she's there to fuck, it's up to her to make it clear that she doesn't want sex, I'm willing to be she does if you're capable of initiating without making her feel like a slut for cheating on her boyfriend. Good luck man |
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| Author: | Houseonthehill [ Tue Nov 02, 2010 10:11 pm ] |
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For me, I feel what goes around comes around. Hold that sexual tension, let it be what it is, and put your handbrake on. You being strong when it comes to this demonstrates a few things. 1. It says something about your moral character, not going after another ones girl 2. You can control yourself around her, you are disinterested, and you are unattainable. She will remember you when her and her bf break up, don't doubt it. There are lots of single ladies around. |
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| Author: | SRVisGod24 [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 6:28 am ] |
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Man, like two of the guys above me said, move on and find a girl that's single to game on. She's been going out with this guy for a few years. Show her a good time, and if she breaks up with her boyfriend she'll remember how cool of a guy you are |
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| Author: | The Shoveler [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 4:58 am ] |
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Thanks guys. I had already changed my mind and canceled yesterday before reading these replies, but I couldn't agree more with you guys. Thanks again! |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 5:25 am ] |
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Why cancel dinner? What? No social life for guys and gals who happen to say that they have a boyfriend/girlfriend in Nebraska or Saigon or Nigeria? You invited her to DINNER. She ACCEPTED. Have dinner. Can you pop in a DVD and watch a movie? Can you cuddle? Can you progress? Can you also put a brake on it if things go further? There's nothing wrong with taking it to the point of, "Woh, let's not get carried away . . ." - and see her response a day or two later. Nothing is black or white. You ought to think about why you're going after a girl who tells you that she has a boyfriend. She certainly has reasons for her to TELL YOU that she has a boyfriend (whether she still does or she doesn't) and she has her reasons for accepting a dinner date . . . but this is secondary to why you're after her. If it's just for the cheap thrill (yeah, there is an adrenalin rush involved here) then you can get cheap thrills elsewhere. If you're genuinely interested in her, then why not explore it further? |
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| Author: | The Shoveler [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 5:48 am ] |
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I definitely understand what you are saying. If I were truly interested in dating this girl, then I would definitely press forward with the dinner. Since, however, I am solely looking for sex at this point in time, I would not feel right playing a role in their breakup just to have sex with her. I am not saying it would be straight out wrong to have her over for dinner, but on a personal level, I would rather not. I can find other women to see (and sleep with) without all of the drama that may come with this girl. On a side note, I'm not sure if I mentioned this, but I do see this girl at least once a week at school (she is a year younger than me), which also plays a role in my decision here. Thank you for the reply, I enjoy seeing the many different ways at looking at the same situation. Very insightful. |
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