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Author:  tedwood [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 4:03 am ]
Post subject:  Got Started on AND Hit then Walked off!?
Basically i was with 3 girls after a night out. A bunch of lads came over and immediately started harassing them after we left because they had food. One of them tried to steal the girls chips and she told me to get him away so i took them off him and he hit me in the stomach twice. I then put my fists up to fight and he put his fists down and one of the girls kept telling me to walk off. So i later walked off and he hit me again in the stomach, then his mate came over and stopped him. Later i was angry that i didn't fight and showed it to the girls this could possibly be AFC but then again there were 4 of his mates around and the girl didn't want me to fight.
Did i DHV by being a PUA and Man or did i DLV for not fighting... your thoughts!?
Author:  Sixpounder [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 4:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Got Started on AND Hit then Walked off!?
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Basically i was with 3 girls after a night out. A bunch of lads came over and immediately started harassing them after we left because they had food. One of them tried to steal the girls chips and she told me to get him away so i took them off him and he hit me in the stomach twice. I then put my fists up to fight and he put his fists down and one of the girls kept telling me to walk off. So i later walked off and he hit me again in the stomach, then his mate came over and stopped him. Later i was angry that i didn't fight and showed it to the girls this could possibly be AFC but then again there were 4 of his mates around and the girl didn't want me to fight.
Did i DHV by being a PUA and Man or did i DLV for not fighting... your thoughts!?
I'm a total noob to PUA but it seems clear to me that you did the right thing. Unless you believe you could have beaten him and all his friends, the best thing was to walk away - you're not going to impress anyone by getting yourself beaten up. You showed yourself in the best possible light by seeming willing to indulge in the fight but not actually doing so by her request.
It was a crappy situation to be in and I think you made the best of it.
Author:  Solteris [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 4:20 am ]
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Personally....you did the right thing.

Women dont like douches that start fights. Women in general hate conflict. You intervened on the girl's behalf and stopped the guy, that right there is something not alot of people have the courage to do. You dont need to justify your actions by beating that guy to a pulp.

Really, your own male ego is hurt by this. The woman looked at that fight totally differently. She saw a guy that stepped in and stopped the harassment towards her.

It sucks that it happened bro, but it's not a DHV to beat a guy to a bloody mess. You did what you had to and was classy about it. Try not to throw first when there are women around IF you can help it. They'll think more highly of you than that other jerk.

If you were alone though, I'd be flaming the piss out of you for not swinging back :)

I think you did the right thing. Dont let it mess with you too much. You did what was the right thing to do, you dont need to walk away from all of those fights a winner. Be happy you did something. Imagine if you just sat there and let him do what he did. You'd feel like total shit, wouldn't you?
Author:  tedwood [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 5:07 am ]
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Hey guys im glad you thought i did the right thing, my ego is still hurt a bit because im not sure if my attraction for the girls will drop. I think the way i should see it is ... I stopped a guy stealing her chips, i was willing to fight and i walked away. Heck i might even be able to incorporate this as a dhv for later sets lol
Do you think attraction for these girls will rise or fall for me?
Author:  Solteris [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 6:22 am ]
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What happened was unfortunate but you handled it like the better man. Dont even stress what these girls think of it, consider this a great personal victory.

If you do wonder what these girls think, when a girl sees two men fight, it's not like she has an instant attraction to the man that's winning the fight. Not at all. Especially considering how the fight started, the other guys just a plain dick.

If she ever talks to you about it, just tell her the truth. I didnt want to justify that stupid prick by throwing a punch. And if she thinks less of you, so fucking what? You stuck your neck out to save her ass. I wouldn't really sweat this one bro.

It's none of her concern anyway what you do with yourself in a fight. You did a good thing, which she should be damn appreciative of. If she's not then fuck her. You shouldn't feel ashamed over anything that happened so dont let the stupid shit get to you.

Just make sure next time, if your ever in a situation like that again, dont do anything you'll regret. Whether it's standing by and watching it all unfold, taking an ass beating or giving one, always walk away from situations like that knowing you did what you thought had to be done. This goes alot deeper than just the girl. After a few fights, they're really nothing to be hesitant about and after a few times you'll use better judgment whether to stay and fight or walk away. Focus on that, dont worry about how cool or uncool you looked.

Watch Fight Club if you haven't! It's not about winning or losing the fight, well im not gonna go into the plot of that movie, but check it out.
Author:  TallDude69 [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 6:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Got Started on AND Hit then Walked off!?
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Basically i was with 3 girls after a night out. A bunch of lads came over and immediately started harassing them after we left because they had food. One of them tried to steal the girls chips and she told me to get him away so i took them off him and he hit me in the stomach twice. I then put my fists up to fight and he put his fists down and one of the girls kept telling me to walk off. So i later walked off and he hit me again in the stomach, then his mate came over and stopped him. Later i was angry that i didn't fight and showed it to the girls this could possibly be AFC but then again there were 4 of his mates around and the girl didn't want me to fight.
Did i DHV by being a PUA and Man or did i DLV for not fighting... your thoughts!?
I'd say you nailed it.

In my opinion, its your job as a man (or her man) to protect her physical safety. You did that but for 3 girls! You got some high quality sperm there and will have your girls chatting about just that.

Give yourself a pat on the back.
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