Oh God I would love to hear the answer to this. I get that all the time.

Guys, realize this. Teasing should be done playfully, harmless and with a smile. Sometimes it doesn't get received in a good way and it won't be a shit test when she says you're mean. You might be joking when you say her hair could get a wash, but she might get the message wrong and think you're actually making fun of her. Look at it this way, a good friend of yours keeps on making lame jokes about you and eventhough you might laugh you'll soon start to think it sucks and you'd want him to stop.

I'm not saying 'you're mean' should always be interpreted this way, but a good chance is she's serious. You can read of your body-language wheither she means it or not. Ex. she starts laughing and softly punches you on the shoulder and says you're mean in a playfull way, that's good. However if she says you're mean while closing up her body (arms crossed etc.) and not looking all to happy, there is a big chance she won't like what you said.

Long story short, be playfull and tease her, but draw the line early. And remember, every girl has a different boundry and it's your job to find it, just like you would with your friends. Teasing might turn into picking on someone and if you mean to or not, it sucks and will lower your chances with her.

Goodluck guys

Girl: "You are being mean!"

Me: "It won't be if you have a sense of humor."

Or, my try at the hoop theory

Me: "It was supposed to be funny. Now, you are being mean by saying that I'm not funny!"

*I never had the chance to try these, do they sound good?

Well, what do you say in these situations?

Guys, realize this. Teasing should be done playfully, harmless and with a smile. Sometimes it doesn't get received in a good way and it won't be a shit test when she says you're mean. You might be joking when you say her hair could get a wash, but she might get the message wrong and think you're actually making fun of her. Look at it this way, a good friend of yours keeps on making lame jokes about you and eventhough you might laugh you'll soon start to think it sucks and you'd want him to stop.

I'm not saying 'you're mean' should always be interpreted this way, but a good chance is she's serious. You can read of your body-language wheither she means it or not. Ex. she starts laughing and softly punches you on the shoulder and says you're mean in a playfull way, that's good. However if she says you're mean while closing up her body (arms crossed etc.) and not looking all to happy, there is a big chance she won't like what you said.

Long story short, be playfull and tease her, but draw the line early. And remember, every girl has a different boundry and it's your job to find it, just like you would with your friends. Teasing might turn into picking on someone and if you mean to or not, it sucks and will lower your chances with her.

Goodluck guys

'sorry babe, dont be upset, i didnt mean it, just joking with you.......(and if you are making fun of her hair /size of her bum or whatever, just add) ......your hair looks lovely/ your bum is the best bit of you etc etc"

Girl: "You are being mean!"

Me: "It won't be if you have a sense of humor."

Or, my try at the hoop theory

Me: "It was supposed to be funny. Now, you are being mean by saying that I'm not funny!"

*I never had the chance to try these, do they sound good?

If she seems worth the fuck, raise your finger to her face and tell her in a deep stern voice without any drama, "Hey . . . behave yourself." - then you just continue on as if nothing happened.