Wondering if anyone else had this problem after graduating college and not being surrounded by girls anymore?

I managed to average 2 hook ups a semester while trying to manage a 4 year relationship and not to mention all the numbers over the years I got at the bars. I know its not a lot but its still pretty good for having a GF and keeping it from her for all 4 years of college.

Now recently graduated, ended things with the long term, and not as many girls around which has put me in the longest drought of my life.

The thing that sucks now is your social circle shrank. You're in a downward spiral and you've got to pull yourself out. I don't know what you do for a living now but I see it like this... You no longer have women around you like you did, and you're not surrounded by your social circle all the time like you were at school. So that might have you feeling a little down, that lack of a constant social circle around sucks two fold because you no longer have that social status to display to prospective women like you did at school. You're going to have to work to get out there and make new connections, that way through new friends you find new women. That's the best way to "naturally" meet people, or you can do the bar/lounge thing. Either way you're going to have to put in some work, the problem wont fix itself. I know because i'm in the same situation lol.

Yeah slyfox is basically right. If your social circle is good, you basically don't need game at university. Once you step into the big wide world, it's not good enough on its own.

Part 1 is to increase your social circle. Join things like salsa dancing classes, members clubs, amateur sports, etc. whatever you're into, to help build friendships outside of work. The girls you meet in these situations are useful to friendzone and take out on weekends to clubs. They will increase your social proof inside venues, and you can game their friends (also they are probably cool people!) Don't avoid talking to guys, especially if you're out gaming in a club. They could be a great future friend, business contact, or gay best friend of the hottest HB10. You don't know until you talk to him!

Part 2 is to do more cold approaches. During the day you can fit in 5 during your lunch hour easily, and 5 more on your way from work. A close rate of just 10% means you could set up about one date per day during the week.

Part 3 is to get motivated and put a lot of effort into your work. Success in the business world will breed success in life in general and in relationships specifically. Your business contacts can become friends, and your social life will improve. Not to mention earning money, respecting yourself, becoming more confident, etc.

Part 4 is to have your own hobbies, interests and passions outside of just work and gaming. Become a interesting, deep person with breadth of knowledge, substance of character and clarity of judgement, and people will be naturally drawn to you.

Yeah slyfox is basically right. If your social circle is good, you basically don't need game at university. Once you step into the big wide world, it's not good enough on its own.

Part 1 is to increase your social circle. Join things like salsa dancing classes, members clubs, amateur sports, etc. whatever you're into, to help build friendships outside of work. The girls you meet in these situations are useful to friendzone and take out on weekends to clubs. They will increase your social proof inside venues, and you can game their friends (also they are probably cool people!) Don't avoid talking to guys, especially if you're out gaming in a club. They could be a great future friend, business contact, or gay best friend of the hottest HB10. You don't know until you talk to him!

Part 2 is to do more cold approaches. During the day you can fit in 5 during your lunch hour easily, and 5 more on your way from work. A close rate of just 10% means you could set up about one date per day during the week.

Part 3 is to get motivated and put a lot of effort into your work. Success in the business world will breed success in life in general and in relationships specifically. Your business contacts can become friends, and your social life will improve. Not to mention earning money, respecting yourself, becoming more confident, etc.

Part 4 is to have your own hobbies, interests and passions outside of just work and gaming. Become a interesting, deep person with breadth of knowledge, substance of character and clarity of judgement, and people will be naturally drawn to you.

I started to do the cold approaches at the gym and at work. I've gamed pretty well at the gym even though most people don't like to game there. However, I run into a pretty high % of girls with boyfriends. I will try to keep building my social circle though with finding new opportunities outside of work. Crazy how in 4 months things change.