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Ok, this girl drives me crazy
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Author:  Eyzuky [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 1:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Ok, this girl drives me crazy
Hi my name is Eyal and im new in the forum.

I am not new in the pua area so i want to ask that if someone answers me i would like not be thought of as a newbie in this topic.

Now my story is very compicated and full of options i hope i manage to make it clear and understanable..

Im in the army. now where i am there are hardly any girls. in all of my base there are like 15 girls and 300 guys.
now this girl... i started talking to her lately (3 weeks)
and ive tried all the flurting and teasing i could do.
then 3 days ago i added her to my facebook page and since then she keeps sending my msgs with big clues like im teasing her and the she says:
"you know something"
me : ?
she: "i dont know you very well, but i think we will get along not bad.."

now yesterday there was a party with my unit and she also came. a day before she wrote me on facebook:
"guess what, we are meating tommorow"

so im coming to the party it wasnt a dance party more like a late night bbq with lots of alchohol.. and first i didnt give her any attention i spoke with some other girl and she didnt get anything from me...
then some point i understood i want her now so i took her to the side..
we were alone on a couch and she is drunk and me too and she lies on me
and im petting her all over her body , her lips, her ears, her hands her stomache and she keeps saying how good it feels and stuff like that.
after a not short while i had to pee so i told her : " im going to pee, you waiting for me?"
and she said "sure"
then i came back i saw a bunch of people around where we were and another guy sitting next to her (he is a good friend of mine, he didnt know i got close with her and i knew he wants to get her 2)
so i said ok its just a chick who cares he can have her .
but i knew he doesnt have a chance because he is the opposite of pua.
anyways later on we went outside where everybody were
and i came and sat next to her and whispered in her ear : "if there wasnt so many people here, i would kiss you now"
and then i got the breaks.... she started breaking me saying she just wants to be a friend of mine... and im like not giving up and not feeling down i start answering all her shit tests for like 20 minutes . in curtain poiint i started feeling needy and stupid so i said fuck it and left to sleep because anyways i was very tired.

now few things to know that will make the story look a bit different:
1. apperently a lot of people got from her the feeling that she is interested in them
2. in the same night a few people tried going for her. i am the only one thats not an afc and actually did something about it (taking her to the side alone, petting her, touching her and even telling her im gonna kiss her (i know its not a good move but i said it in a way that i believe will make a girl horny but it doesnt matter)
all the rest just kept looking for her attention and she was actually playing with all of us.

what the hell should i do now?
what went wrong?
why girls act like that?
if i dont want to give up on her, what moves should i make?

please i know i need to just keep going and know that there are more girls exept her and i really dont care to much about her as much as i just want to understand.

thank you
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Ok, this girl drives me crazy
Quote:
what the hell should i do now?
what went wrong?
why girls act like that?
if i dont want to give up on her, what moves should i make?
1. Game other women
2. Telling her you wanted to kiss her was a state break. As soon as the petting was getting intense you should have isolated to a place where sex was possible
3. They like attention and are the sexual selectors, especially when the ratio is so low in their favour
4. Leave some time, game other women, come back to her later when she sees you have other options and are not needy, and re-engage and sexually escalate smoothly using push-pull, make sure you sort out your LOGISTICS this time!
Author:  Jelly [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:45 pm ]
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Quote:
im petting her all over her body
lol
Quote:
after a not short while i had to pee so i told her : " im going to pee, you waiting for me?"
and she said "sure"
First issue is here. You should have either kissed her before you went to the bathroom or you should have got up close to her about to kiss her get inches away and then said I have to go to the bathroom Kissing her would have solidified a connection, a fake kiss pull away would have left her wanting more and thinking about it as long as it was a confident pull away not a nervous one.
Leaving the situation let her state fade away and let her emotions slide away and gave her rational mind time to catch up with the emotional one to yell things in her head like "i dont want to be called a slut"
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2. Telling her you wanted to kiss her was a state break. As soon as the petting was getting intense you should have isolated to a place where sex was possible
agreed, never ask a girl or tell her. no one in PU should ever be telling any other guy a proper way to ask a girl bc there is no way that should ever be used.
Author:  Dev [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:47 pm ]
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Hmmm my bets are that when you were all close on the couch and doing whatever she realised she could have you and lost interest. You probably should have held back a bit more.

Remember, chances are she knows that she could probably have any of you 300 guys. So you better hope you got something to offer that the rest of the guys dont.

Also, how can you be so sure that out of 300 guys your the only one that knows pua? Do you really know the rest of the guys that well? And what about the ones that just have naturally have good game?

My advice would be to game one of the other girls and hope that this first girl gets jealous. I reckon thats your best bet.

Good luck with it anyway.
Author:  Eyzuky [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 3:01 pm ]
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well actually threre is a hb8 that i know that she hates so i may game her and she would really get annoyed. she probably would understand that she is nothing for me and it may work that way...
anyways good responses ty would like to see more
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