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Author:  Dante[RAFC] [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 9:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Need ADVICE on what to do next with this girl by text.

I met this girl last week Thursday and called her on Tuesday! She seemed very excited etc to hear from me. We had a good conversation and flirted/teased her a bit through the call. I also didn't tell her my real age to create that mystery... After the call she sends me a text saying:

Her: "Hey hey gemini thanks for the call! U got such a huskiness voice and i'm still wondering about your age? Haha. :) Xox hope u have a good night!"

Me: "Have a good night. Lets do something on the weekend. :) xx"

Her: "Ok lets c what happens and have a chat or 2!! Xxx sweet dreams!"

(Next Day)

Her: "So was just thinking about u!! I heard from Warren(my friend) that u wana bone me!lol.haha!! Hope u had a good day!! Xxx"

Me: "I'd love to "bone" you but you are going to have to whine and dine me before you start taking advantage of me. :)"

Her: "I was hoping Warren did mention how high maintenance i was :) haha! Ur just such a temptation! Xxx"

Me: "It's fine if you high maintenance... I don't mind doing the work. ;) xx"

Her: "Glad we got that covered! Coz geminis like to be in control right!! :)"

Me: "In that case ill let you borrow my handcuffs. ;)"

Her: "Oh so you giving me ful control now!! As long as you throw away the keys!hehe. ;)"

Me: "That's what i like to make you think you devious minx, sheep are easily led. Haha. :P"

Her: "Only you want to be led! :) :P. I've gotta say goodnight before i let u...m xx"

Me: "Haha. Night babe. Xx"

(Today)

Me: "Hey babe. How you doing? Are we on for tonight? Xx"

(She then calls my phone and my battery dies so i sent her a message on Facebook)

Me: "My battery died. :( So we will have to talk via email. xx"

Her: "That's sucks only got to hear ur voice for like a few seconds!hehe!! Going to mibar tonight by latinova!! R u keen to come!! I hope u r!! Xxx "

Me: "Yeah sounds like a plan! I will let you know!xx"

Her: "Ok cool chat later, charge ur battery!! Xxx "

(So i didn't speak to her and she texted me)

Her: "Check ur fb gorgeous!! Lemme know what u do tonight?? Xxx"

Me: "I hope you not sending me a love message. ;) I am just going to chill tonight. Xx"

Her: "U wish!! :) :). Aaah that sucks so bad!! What u doing on Sunday?"

Me: "I am busy on Sunday. Lets do something tomorrow afternoon."

Her: "I can't i have a braai!! Flip man this sucks...mwa Sunday!!"

Me: "So are we on or not?"

Her: "For Sunday totally!! Mmm what u doing on Sat night?? I wanna mwa's"

Me: "Well i was thinking of doing something with my friends but you and i can do something in the afternoon."

Her: "On Sunday!! Jay jay!! Xxx"




So as you can see she is trying to take control with the situation and what i really need help with is someone who is good with texting and could help me get in control here and how i should follow the conversation from here on out! I am better with calling and not so much with text! Could you also let me know on how i am doing with my text!

It will be much appreciated! :)

Dante

Author:  GameIsOn [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 10:24 pm ]
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Good thing she's already obsessed with you else you shouldn't be texting like that. Anyways to get to your question , just be less available and you will have control. The reason she is taking control is because it's comvenient for her. She calls the shots , tells you when to hang out.. Just say no and you'll be surprised how much it'll change your situation , you're being too available.

Author:  Dante[RAFC] [ Sat Oct 23, 2010 11:15 am ]
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Good thing she's already obsessed with you else you shouldn't be texting like that. Anyways to get to your question , just be less available and you will have control. The reason she is taking control is because it's convenient for her. She calls the shots , tells you when to hang out.. Just say no and you'll be surprised how much it'll change your situation , you're being too available.

Thanks alot i will do that! She called me this morning asking me what was happening and i told her that i was going out clubbing with mates tonight and tomorrow i am with the family in the morning and don't know what time it will be over. So i guess i will stay in contact with her and see what happens...

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