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Author:  AusWolf [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 5:21 am ]
Post subject:  Alpha problem
So there's this guy who's just recently started acting all alpha on me. He'll completely bag the shit out of me right in front of my mates and any girls I'm talking to. Usually most people give him no notice as he's a "Creepy guy", but I just can't help it getting under my skin.

Also there is a really strong willed chick who is "one of the boys". We both get along quite well but she's taken to hitting me (she used to do this with one of my other friends until he got a girlfriend). What does this mean?

Any advice?
Author:  Shinigaml [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 5:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Alpha problem
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So there's this guy who's just recently started acting all alpha on me. He'll completely bag the shit out of me right in front of my mates and any girls I'm talking to. Usually most people give him no notice as he's a "Creepy guy", but I just can't help it getting under my skin.

Also there is a really strong willed chick who is "one of the boys". We both get along quite well but she's taken to hitting me (she used to do this with one of my other friends until he got a girlfriend). What does this mean?

Any advice?
she's taken to hitting me ??? what...

As for the rest. True alpha don't dlv their friends or people in their group. And doing so shows that he is insecure. That is not an alpha you are dealing with, it's called an asshole. You even state that he is the creepy guy that doesn't get noticed in the group, so use this to your advantage. REMEMBER, if you are phased by what he says, you lose. The whole point is not to get it under your skin and just brush it off.

If he says "Wow Adam you really are a faggot"

You can do the wrong thing and say "Fuck you man, wtf is your problem" and get all mad. This will make him keep doing it.

Or you can say "Yeah, I am such a faggot that I can't help myself scoring with all the chicks that rejected you" and *smile*. By doing this, you a. agree with what he says so he can't really say anything back, it difuses his statement towards you because you are ABLE to joke about it and not let it phase you, which it shouldn't. AND b. You automatically come with a diss to him but in a more subtle way.

Get it? This is similar to shit tests girls give out. You fail if you are phased by it. But if you ignore or show that what she says doesn't matter, you win. Why do you think internet forum trolls piss people off and succeed? Because the people get all mad and phased that they reply back in anger. This is EXACTLY what the troll wants.

Another example, if he says "Wow you really suck with women" and then you respond with "Yea I suck so much. I only get pussy every other week you know? I wish I was more of the ladies man such as yourself, how many do you get bro?"

^See how you always have to agree with what they say and turn it around on them??? If you call someone a faggot and they ignore or it doesn't phase them, you get bored eventually. But if you call aother person a faggot and they get all mad and affected, it is FUN and you will keep doing it. Get it?

Hoped this helped gl.
Author:  AusWolf [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 5:54 am ]
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Yeah thanks man for the great advice. I don't acknowledge anything he says usually so now I'll turn it on him.

Btw the hitting is playful and soft usually when I ignore her, which is more often then not as I'm not even remotely romantically interested in her. This is also the girl in my other post with the leaning problem.
Author:  Shinigaml [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 6:00 am ]
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Yeah thanks man for the great advice. I don't acknowledge anything he says usually so now I'll turn it on him.

Btw the hitting is playful and soft usually when I ignore her, which is more often then not as I'm not even remotely romantically interested in her. This is also the girl in my other post with the leaning problem.
If a girl hits you playfully, you better know that she is interested in you, sexually.
Author:  AusWolf [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 6:04 am ]
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I would have assumed that but it's usually after saying something she doesn't like and when I an emotional response from her bad/good.
Author:  Shinigaml [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 6:11 am ]
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I would have assumed that but it's usually after saying something she doesn't like and when I an emotional response from her bad/good.
It's not a matter of saying something she doesn't like. You got it the wrong way. If you say she's fat and hits you, then she hit you because you insulted her and that is NOT smart. If you say your dress makes you LOOK fat, and then she hits you, that means she likes you. This is called flirting my friend. When you bust a girl on something about her that isn't TOO offensive, she will send you IOI's by nudging you on the arm. And it is somewhat subconscious on her part. She will usually not know when she touches you. Her body does it automatically.

You can tell if it's the real kind of hitting as supposed to the playful hitting by where she hits you and how hard. Also look for her body language. But in most cases it's an IOI.
Author:  AusWolf [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 6:15 am ]
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Yeah sweet, she is one of those dominant type girls, so hitting would make sense as her way of showing affection. Usually it's when I bust her on something.
Author:  CHrisBreezie [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 7:57 am ]
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sounds like an asshole to me no way near alpha--an alpha has Just about no insecurities he is absolutely free as an individual
Author:  Leon Phelps [ Fri Oct 22, 2010 9:34 am ]
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Here in Medellin when a chica hits me I like to hit her back but not hard enough to give her a black eye or anything. Just enough to let her know who is Jefe or BOSS.
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