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| Author: | Jt246 [ Thu Oct 21, 2010 8:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is this a test or what? How to deal with it? |
I've been dating this girl a bit over two months. On several occasions she has gone out drinking and dancing with friends and refuses to tell me specifics about what happened saying thing like "I plead the fifth" or "thats not for you to know!" and just generally being evasive about it and saying I'm not telling. I kind of just ignore it but it's pissing me off and I wanna say something. Is this a test? How would you deal with it? |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Thu Oct 21, 2010 10:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this a test or what? How to deal with it? |
Quote: I've been dating this girl a bit over two months.
Are you just seeing eachother or properly together? If your together, you have to trust her, and ask her in general ways, what happened, good night? etcOn several occasions she has gone out drinking and dancing with friends and refuses to tell me specifics about what happened saying thing like "I plead the fifth" or "thats not for you to know!" and just generally being evasive about it and saying I'm not telling. I kind of just ignore it but it's pissing me off and I wanna say something. Is this a test? How would you deal with it? If your just seeing eachother, and it is early days, fuck it man, play the opposite, act like you don't care, she'll soon be wondering why your not asking and then just tell you! |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Oct 21, 2010 10:48 pm ] |
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Why are you asking? That shit is needy and jealous and lame. Are you in an open relationship? If not maybe you should be, then you can fuck other chicks too and neither one of you can ask questions or get jealous. |
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| Author: | MorethanStyle [ Thu Oct 21, 2010 11:01 pm ] |
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Haha, general rule that I live by about relationships. If she goes out -> I go out. You see if she is going out drinking without you what do you think she is doing. I agree you have to trust her but obviously she is going to be getting hit on and flirting with guys. If she is having a good time, you MUST too go out and have a good time. If she is going to club A, you go to club B (make sure club B is known to have many attractive single women). Or better yet just take a croud of chicks with you to wherever you go, which you should be doing anyway! Your intent doesn't have to be to make her jealous, but showing her that you can be with other chicks if you want will make her be much more attractive to you. It will also get her to tell you how lame her night out was. Her hiding it from you is just her way of being in control of the relationship. Take control |
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