You saw her six times, nothing happened, she got bored. You have to escalate more quickly, OR be a generally more interesting person with shit going on. I mean, you've seen her six times already and almost had sex with her, yet when she messages you on SPAM the only thing you can say is "oh so I see you've got the internet" ? Come on man. Why would she want to see you, what are you offering her? You got a pitywank out of it, move on.
As a side note, there is an interesting statistical pattern amongst women that I have experienced myself. Generally, when women are on their periods, they tend to find men with boyish features (such as myself) more attractive, and when they are ovulating, they find men with strong features (e.g. big jaw, etc.) more attractive. This obviously has a simple evolutionary explanation that I don't need to explain to you, but what it means is that my SNLs often occur with women who are on their periods.
If you still want to fuck, then you just have to really reassure her that it's ok and you don't mind. Women are very concerned about their bodies and how they look to us. They usually don't want to because they don't want the guy to be grossed out, not for any other reason. If you show that you don't care and you still find her attractive, she'll be more emotionally connected to you. I put a black towel on top of a red pillow and put that under her so nothing gets on the sheets, and you throw the condom away anyway so I really don't see what the big deal is.
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