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Author:  transition [ Sun Oct 17, 2010 10:11 pm ]
Post subject:  the text game to real life
hi im new to the forum, SPAM im in a situation when ive known a few girls for a month or so but have only met them a hand ful of times. my problem is i am finding it hard to move from the text game to getting them to meet me. For some we make plans and then they will cancel for some vallid reasons but it gets quite annoying as you could understand. after listening to few audio tracks about the game i came across the idea that if your let down like this or rejected you should punish them or freez them out, how would i put this theory into action in these circumstances or any alternative answers are welcome. :)
Author:  Shinigaml [ Mon Oct 18, 2010 1:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: the text game to real life
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hi im new to the forum, SPAM im in a situation when ive known a few girls for a month or so but have only met them a hand ful of times. my problem is i am finding it hard to move from the text game to getting them to meet me. For some we make plans and then they will cancel for some vallid reasons but it gets quite annoying as you could understand. after listening to few audio tracks about the game i came across the idea that if your let down like this or rejected you should punish them or freez them out, how would i put this theory into action in these circumstances or any alternative answers are welcome. :)
I don't really remember the last that that a "friend" would let me touch her boobs. Well actually I do but she also wanted to fuck me really badly and I'd tease her and play with her pussy and get her wet

MY POINT IS, I think your kino esclation is good and I don't think you are in the friendz zone my friend. A lot can happen in 3 years and you have a good semi-fresh start with her.
Author:  prisma [ Mon Oct 18, 2010 3:14 am ]
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Wrong thread Shinigaml ahahah.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Oct 18, 2010 12:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: the text game to real life
Quote:
hi im new to the forum, SPAM im in a situation when ive known a few girls for a month or so but have only met them a hand ful of times. my problem is i am finding it hard to move from the text game to getting them to meet me. For some we make plans and then they will cancel for some vallid reasons but it gets quite annoying as you could understand. after listening to few audio tracks about the game i came across the idea that if your let down like this or rejected you should punish them or freez them out, how would i put this theory into action in these circumstances or any alternative answers are welcome. :)
This problem doesn't have a quick fix. It is a symptom of a few more underlying problems.

Chances are you're failing on one of at least 2 key areas.

1. You haven't built enough of an emotional connection initially. If you meet a girl on a night out and she's had a few drinks, you're probably fun enough to give her number out to, but she's gonna do the same for 5-10 other guys too, and unless you do MORE than those guys both before and after getting the number, she may not really remember you and will try to avoid an awkward encounter with you if possible the next time.

If you do direct day game, chances are she will remember you well because it's rare to get hit on at that time in that way. But indirect night, you want to definitely build a bit of comfort to ensure less flakiness, and make sure you've at least got up to the top of the "friendly touching" kino ladder, if not turned things sexual already.

2. Your follow up texts offer no value. "Hey it's X from bar Y do you remember, lets get a drink sometime" texts are BORING, she gets HUNDREDS of these and will definitely flake unless she really really likes you. Best to shoot out a value-giving text with no expectation of a reply first, for example "omg the craziest thing happened to me!" When she gets back to you, you can call or text again, tell her a little DHV story and then invite her to the day 2, which should be interesting and a bit different and involve a few locations, the last of which will be near your place.
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