I just wander this because the last time I got friend zoned I promised myself Id do whatever it takes to turn it round....and so I started learning pick up stuff (Ive been a major AFC my whole life, my lifes changed more in this last year than ever before).

I'll keep this brief just to see the respones. But of course I have my own drama that Ive been looking for answers to without the need to post but theres just so many posts the search results take ages to scan and I get no where.

So.....have any of you guys ended up with a girl you were friend zoned by (i mean a relationship not just a fling)?

Thanks guys

Ah, thanks Chelios. That makes sense yeah.

In fact I noticed that once she started noticing potential competition, she also started to seem more interested. Also she flaked once in a text and with a reply something along the lines of 'its cool....might invite someone else out...' she text back the next day to see if the offer to her was still there.

Congratulations to you mate I'm real happy for ya. Ive hit a bit of a stale mate at the minute it seems, (ended up posting it in the end) but Im deffo gonna have fun and be my best self til things work out!

Often confused with love, this is the feeling that a particular woman is actually special. This is just an illusion; she is the same as the other three or so billion. "Go fuck ten other women" is the most commonly prescribed SPAM for this "disease" (hence the "itis"), as it tends to show quite quickly how very alike people are. In other words, get over yourself and your obsession with that girl, because it's just an illusion. And when you get rejected, don't be depressed. Because there's really not much to worry about.