Thanks for all the replies, and just to clarify, i'm not playing with her. I really do like this girl and would like for us to get together if possible.. As for being a sweetheart, I doubt that would work, I don't want her to see my hand before she is all-in. I don't want to be all-in right now, because she is in a comfort zone, she has a bfriend and can just decide to stick with him and make me linger...
Last night I was out in a bar, where I suspected she might be, and I got there late so I just missed her. A couple hours later though she came back with her friends. I was chatting up this beautiful girl who's been friends with me for awhile, and when they got in I thought, *crap she's seeing me talk alone with this woman, she's going to think i'm gaming and be right about the player crap*.
So one of her friends, whom I had never seen before comes up and says hi to the HB I was talking to, she then says hi to me and I present myself, she answered "I know who you are".
Then, the girl I am after, lets call her Amy, she comes over, says Hi and they all go sit down.
I finish up my conversation with the other chick, then go back to my friends and think of a way to isolate her.
I decide to go to the bar alone, start playing with my phone like a loner, thinking she might come over. Her bestfriend comes over to order drinks, and I start talking with her, and when she leaves I tell her: "Hey, call that dork and tell her to come over." and she says: "Who? Amy?" and I'm like no shit Amy.
So Amy comes over, and we start talking and flirting, she goes on about a bracelet she gave to me, and how I wear another bracelet I got from another girl infront of hers, how i'm a player and whatever. So - and that might have been a mistake, but hearing how she told her friends she was afraid I was too much of a player, mixed with beer, I thought this might be a good move - I throw the other girls bracelet infront of her.
She then tells me the significance of the bracelet, and how the shape and shit like that is important and whatever. She kept telling me, while smiling and looking straight into my eyes with her glowing eyes:"Your such a player, with your cute little smile and your little dimples", and I was like "naah i'm not like that" giving her a big smile back.
We talk for about 10 minutes, then she goes back to her friends, and I kind of ignore her for the night, sometimes I would have some eye contact with her, she'd been like making cute faces while looking at me, playing those kind of games.
Finally, at the end of the night, one of my buddies starts hitting on her bestfriend, and I go with him and we are sitting together, while she is at the other end of the table, I turn my back to her. And her bestfriend keeps telling me i'm SUCH a player, and I was trying to battle against that, but they were both busting on me.
I told Amy to come over and stop being so afraid in her corner, and she asked why she should come over, I replied "Why not?" and she said:"Oh you love saying that don't you!".
My bud then asks Amy's bestfriend "Man, when are these two finally going to jump at each other", and she replies "she has a boyfriend", with a huge smile.
So I thought, okay, lets turn this around, and I start busting on Amy saying how SHE is such a player, and all that.
Finally, they leave the bar and we just say goodbye like that.
I was disappointed because the last time I had met Amy, she wasn't with her friends, and she didn't act all that though and hard to get. I know she was putting up an act infront of the girls. Furthermore, I was hoping to iso her and hook up with her but it didn't go as smooth.
SO, I thought: *Damn, I just got hit by a WALL of her bestfriends, saying i'm such a player and what not, I didn't have any bullet-proof jacket. I need to get approval from her bestfriend.* So, Tuesday i'm having lunch with that bestfriend of hers, and I need advice on how to win her, and show her that I am not such a player, and that Amy can drop her boy for me.
But before that, i'm most likely going to see Amy again tonight. I briefly texted her this today:
CW: Geez, I woke up this morning to help my father do some work, and one of my bracelets we're gone... I only have yours now.
Amy: At least mine will give you luck  Are you going to Bar X tonight? I'll pass by!
CW: Yeah I don't know yet, i'll need you to convince me because I have a game on Sunday..
Amy: You got my bracelet don't you remember? You can go out.
CW: Mhhh, i'll need you to convince me on the powers of this thing, i'm not so sure about it yet. I might pass by so you can do that.
So there we have it, 2 missions:
1) Try to close tonight
2) Go to lunch with her bestfriend, and get approval from this girl. Should I game her? i don't think so...
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