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| Author: | Ascian [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 10:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Quick Question- Please help! |
Does acting uninterested and kind of ignoring a girl work well when attracting? I have a target who I am friends with and I was wondering how to get out of this situation. I have all the tools to do it (my game is pretty good, im cocky/funny, nice but not too nice, etc). Help? Also if anyone knows anything about FB/MSN/Online game it would help a lot! Thanks. |
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| Author: | Shinigaml [ Wed Oct 13, 2010 1:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Quick Question- Please help! |
Quote: Does acting uninterested and kind of ignoring a girl work well when attracting? I have a target who I am friends with and I was wondering how to get out of this situation. It really depends on how far you sunk into the friends zone with her. If you barely know her and have only scratched the surface of her personality, and vise versa, you still have a chance. Why? Because although she is your friend, she still sees you as a mystery. She knows she can trust you, you just have to trigger her attraction switches now.I have all the tools to do it (my game is pretty good, im cocky/funny, nice but not too nice, etc). Help? Also if anyone knows anything about FB/MSN/Online game it would help a lot! Thanks. Imo, acting uninterested and ignoring your friend won't work. Why? She'll think you're a dick. It doesn't work the same way because to her, if you ignore her, she'll be confused and lost. In her brain, attraction switches just won't turn on that way. She has her brain programed to see you as a friend. That doesn't mean be nice to her and pay her lots of attention. It's good to be uninterested and ignoring her only a bit. But it helps you are her friend because you can get "closer" to her than the average encounter. So when she is talking, stare at her with bedroom glaring eyes. And see if she stares back and looks at you. If this occurs for more than 3 seconds with absolute silence, you've successfully turned on one of her attraction switches. You re-wired her brain and a part of that "friend-zone" you were in is now gone. That zone is getting smaller and smaller. Imo, eye contact is the most powerful way to get a 'friend' interested. Why? Because she sees you as a friend. But when someone looks you in the eye, you can really see into their souls and see past all that bullshit. But don't get all freaky with that eye contact shit. If she says "why are you staring at me like that", it's not a good sign. At this point you are probably wayyyy too far into the friends zone and all I can say is... Move on. GL |
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