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Author:  Sappa [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 3:27 am ]
Post subject:  the "i have a boyfriend" card
so you walk up to a girl on the dancefloor. you pull an opener and she pulls the "i have a fake boyfriend card." i find it so easy to tell if a girl has a boyfriend or not, but anyways this has happend several times and i have no good way to answer back. usually i just say "woaw what a nice boyfriend leaving a cute girl like you out on the dancefloor alone." but thats lame and rarely works... sooo how could i counter act on this?

-Sappa
Author:  Believe18 [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 3:30 am ]
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go in confident with a boyfriend destroyer after she said that?
Author:  Shinigaml [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 3:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: the "i have a boyfriend" card
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so you walk up to a girl on the dancefloor. you pull an opener and she pulls the "i have a fake boyfriend card." i find it so easy to tell if a girl has a boyfriend or not, but anyways this has happend several times and i have no good way to answer back. usually i just say "woaw what a nice boyfriend leaving a cute girl like you out on the dancefloor alone." but thats lame and rarely works... sooo how could i counter act on this?

-Sappa
Yea that is pretty bad lol

Use one of these.

- That will give you something to do when I'm not around
- I'm not inviting HIM. Just you.
- I've just met you and already you're telling me your problems aha
Author:  Tundra [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 3:50 am ]
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You could try a boyfriend destroyer but I think it was too early and I don't think you were opening properly. If she says she has a boyfriend right after the opener, you probably screwed up somewhere. Was your opener expressing interest in her? It just doesn't make sense to me that she would pull that out immediately unless you telegraphed waaay too much interest, came off scripted/awkward, or she simply wasn't attracted to you. I think if you tried to use a boyfriend destroyer that early it just wouldn't be productive, but someone might disagree.
Author:  Sappa [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 4:34 am ]
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You could try a boyfriend destroyer but I think it was too early and I don't think you were opening properly. If she says she has a boyfriend right after the opener, you probably screwed up somewhere. Was your opener expressing interest in her? It just doesn't make sense to me that she would pull that out immediately unless you telegraphed waaay too much interest, came off scripted/awkward, or she simply wasn't attracted to you. I think if you tried to use a boyfriend destroyer that early it just wouldn't be productive, but someone might disagree.
haha next time i will post up the whole story =P ya me and my friends were using the most random things as a joke. we play a game that involves two guys that make up random and stupid openers for the other to use, sometimes its really funny openers, and sometimes there really random. the first time i ever had a girl say that was when we were playing this game and my friend wanted me to use "Tag your it" as a opener. i didnt even think about it, i just walked up to the first cute girl i found poked her and said tag your it... so i think thats why she said she had a boyfriend :shock:
but there have been other times when i am actually trying and they answer with that
Author:  Sirva [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 5:38 am ]
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Tell her "it's ok, im not jealous".
Author:  ImNaShitFool [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 7:32 am ]
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dont.. do.. the beautiful girl alone.. thing...

its the opposite of what u need to do.

you gotta be cocky/funny and non reactive..

And this is prolly why u should go in more under the radar.. use an indirect opener and then start gaming..
Author:  KristallNachte [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 11:55 am ]
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dude

its simple

say something random like 'i have a gerbil' or 'i like cereal'

she'll say 'what?'

and you say 'sorry, thought we were talking about things that don't matter'
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 2:06 pm ]
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dude

its simple

say something random like 'i have a gerbil' or 'i like cereal'

she'll say 'what?'

and you say 'sorry, thought we were talking about things that don't matter'
I like that, randomness, shows ou don't realy care.

Also I've used the " Sorry, thought we were here to have a good night, not tell eachother our problems"
Author:  Sappa [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 5:02 pm ]
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haha well thx for all the pointers!
Next time I am in a club i will have to try using a few.
oh and I was planning on going to a nightclub on a weeknight but i don't know if there is going to be anyone there. should i just go to like a bar or try some day game or what?
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 10:03 pm ]
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haha well thx for all the pointers!
Next time I am in a club i will have to try using a few.
oh and I was planning on going to a nightclub on a weeknight but i don't know if there is going to be anyone there. should i just go to like a bar or try some day game or what?
There will be people there, if not loads of girls gagging for it! Find a student night, cheaper night and fun!
Author:  Sappa [ Thu Oct 14, 2010 6:48 am ]
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ok sweet thx bros... i kind of got fucked over tho. i wanted to go to the nightclub on the weekday but now the military has me working 20 hours a day so i cannot go... well anywho maybe next weekend i will have to go and try out some pointers. thx again
Author:  Chelios [ Thu Oct 14, 2010 11:02 pm ]
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ok sweet thx bros... i kind of got fucked over tho. i wanted to go to the nightclub on the weekday but now the military has me working 20 hours a day so i cannot go... well anywho maybe next weekend i will have to go and try out some pointers. thx again
Respecy to being in the Military man! Been there myself in a certain way, it can be hard.

Do it when ever you can!
Author:  Puaking [ Thu Oct 14, 2010 11:10 pm ]
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"Really, me too... We got something in common."

Deliver it very alpha male, and continue to be alpha with her, so she knows you were kidding.
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