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my buddy is going to have a couple house partys to celberate his new place. What kind of techniques would work the best and what not?
Simple, be the life of the party. People (girls) come to a party to have fun. If you ARE the party, girls will come to YOU. It's easy isn't it? And if you are surrounded by many girls, you automatically have social proof, pre-selection and many more traits that come with being the life of the party.First, if your friend is going to throw a house party, you might wanna check the guys and girls who are coming to the party on facebook and discuss them with your friend. It's a sort of preparation. Then you already know some things about those people so it that you might chat more easily with them, it also gives you a good vibe checking out the hot babes who are coming and it's just fun to do it.
Secondly, at the party, be there as first to help him with the preparation, the drinks, go buy alcohol with him and install the music installation. Now you've become one of the "party leaders", cuz you helped organising, it gives you also a good feeling of responsability and confidence, and again, it just gives you a very good vibe. Again you will have sonething to talk about, and it's cool to be one of the party managers (and girls will like that as well).
As you are the first one on the party along with your buddy, you can also greet the first guests and talk with them. Since there are a few people it will create a sort of bond.
When more guests are coming, you can greet them all. It's a lot more easier to start socialising when you start with a small group who gets larger, than if you arrive at a party when everybody is already there, drunk, unable to talk, or whatever, without having the possibility to bond with the people.
Now you know most of the people, you can start talking to everyone, and voila, the game is on!
There are some other things what you can do to DHV or to create a big social value in the group:
1) if you are throwing a relativly large party, you can arrange with your other buddies who help organizing the party to wear the same clothes/ outfit. People will wonder why you are dressed the same and then you can say "yeah we host this party". it would be even better if you guys would order the same collored t-shirts with a self designed print or whatever which says "party hoster ____ (your name)". That is realy cool.
2) As one of the party managers, organise drinking games or other likewise random stuff. It makes you realy cool and in control.
3) if you are a dj and you have the stuff, be the dj of the party. From my own experiences I say to you that everyone will notice you and girls might approach you. A guy who is a dj is something to brag about for girls.
Enjoy!
