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| Author: | 01jonny01 [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 1:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Messed up Fclose date.... |
Hi guys I am new to the community. Anyway I would like all your advice. I went on a date with this girl (HB8.7)...it was going really well she was laughing her ass off the whole date I was talking to the waitress serving us cocktails... to demonstrate higher value, it made this girl want me even more. The girl I was on a date with kept asking me what I did for a living I made out I was a underwear model and asked the waitress if she believed that I could be a underwear model, this waitress gave me a cheeky grin and say yes. This made the girl even more wet...we then had a game of thumb wars to built comfort. I then pushed, pulled and negged this girl basically every time she opened her mouth. I suggested we move to a different bar, I liked where we were but was scared it might go stale, I also wanted to warp her time frame. So we headed to a new bar, and we danced. I then phase shifted and gazed into her eyes, put my hand round the back of her head and kissed her, then turned back around and carried on ordering my drink and ignored her for a little. She was then all over me, I sat down in a chair and she danced for me like a stripper, she pushed her tits in my face and reveal her slutty tattoo on her lower back. I then started setting the foundations, I new that this girl arrived by train to meet me and she had previously told me that the last train was at 11:30, so I made out that my friends recorded me on video dancing and that it was really funny and she should see it at my apartment. She wasnt having none of that. She said she was catching the train home, I said well I got this marathon tomorrow and I need to be up but I may be able to drop you home if you ask really nicely. She declined again and said she was catching the train and that I didnt have to go out my way to do it. I said fine its up to you. Then we started walking to the train station. I got out my keys half way thru the walk and gave a car sales man type breath and went "ahhhhhh come on then I suppose I can give you a lift" ....she said ok and we walked to my car. In the car on the way home I noticed that my negging had gone a bit too far, she had put a barrier up and was starting to give as good as she got, so I made some fluff talk and ignored her attempt to out neg me. She previously mentioned that she had a cat. I decided I was use this as a tool, as an attempt at getting in her place. (previously she had told me that she wouldnt let anyone in on the first date). SO I said: I love cats and playing fighting with them (I actually hate them), what colour is she? Does she have any favourite toys? I gotta see this cat now. She responded by saying do you wanna come and see her then. I went in played with the cat for a while. I thought this is it I'm going to nail her. I will tell you my exact actions because up to this point my game had been spotless. 1. Went in the apartment I sat down on the chair in the living room and started playing with the cat. I added my time constraint in saying to the cat " you are going make me tired for tomorrow" as I dangled a fake mouse above its head. 2. Actually, told her about cat string theory)not linking it to women) and how the cat would get bored when I just gave her the toy......actually the F**king cat kept playing with it haha 3. I then said you are rude. She said why. I said you havnt even given me the grand tour. She said ok and showed me her bedroom I looked around at her photos and shit. 4.She then showed me the spare room, I asked her if she had ever slept in there when ppl visist (just BS chat) I then phase shifted again and stood so my body was facing her in the door way. I grabbed the back of her head and told her how I felt she had corrupted "little old innocent me" she was laughing, we made out. 5. Went back into the sofa and sat on a big cushion on the floor. I said come and join me (she was sat on the chair) my head is starting to hurt talking to you, while I look up. She agreed. I started making out again with her. I then brushed my hand over her breast and I was kissing her and she said "sneaky move". I then turned my head towards the tv and she said "what time you doing your marathon, your going to be tired" I said, " I know I shouldn't be being here doing this with you", and we continued making out. 6. I negged her again (I cant remember what I said) but she slapped my face....jokingly (quite hard tho) and we started making out again. 7. I then phase shifted into hunter mode. Pushed her back on the cushion pinned her arms down and kissed her hard. 8. She then got up and walked around the room and to the door of the room. I was thinking Yes!! she is leading me to her bedroom.... 9. She stands in the hall way said you better be going now, otherwise your going to be tired for your marathon. 10. I stood there freezed her out and pretended to text some. When I finished I looked up at her and said you're right I better be going (i always hate saying that, feels like your shooting yourself in the foot). 11. She said I will walk you to your car. I was like "no I am a big boy I can do it myself" 12. She comes in for a good by kiss. I made a last ditch attempt to gaze in her eyes and not kiss her. I think my game started to crumble now I said "fuk your choosing to sleep with the cat" 13. She walked me down to the door and leant it for a kiss. I carried on walking pass her to give her the feeling that I might not kiss her. She leant in again and I kissed her and said "ok bye see you soon" maybe a bit too cold I think? I think I know where I went wrong, but I wanna hear your take on it. I find its much harder to nail a girl in her place. As she can chuck you out at any time and you must work hard not to pull to hard on the fishing line. I think I pulled to hard. I am not going to text her now until she messages me. I have the feeling my phase shift (at her apartment) was too strong and I basically let her have me. |
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