Home coming is coming up, and I'm not going to go cuz I'm in college... I'm too old for that shit. She's in HS. It went something like this, via text.
Her: Are you coming to homecoming with me?
Me: Babe, I'm too old for that lol
Her: But then I have to bring another dude cuz that's mean.
Me: You bring another dude, and you know what's gonna happen. *Me breaking up with her* Go with ur girlies that night, and we'll chill some other time.
Just an FYI, we've been dating for 2 weeks, and we have had like 3-5 break ups, but when we make up. The last time we made up, I told her specifically that we cannot have any of these fake break ups, when I was going over some rules.
Now when I seen her today, like an idiot, I brought up homecoming lol. She said, "You're friend is going" blabla. I told her I'm not going, and she said, "But so many guys have asked me." I just kinda motioned I didn't care. Then as we were parting ways she asked if I was going again, I said no. Then she said, "I'll break up with you." I replied, "I already told you. If we break up again, it's going to be permanent." She said, "ok" and the subject quickly changed, n we said our goodbyes. (Goodbyes as a bf/gf, not as in leaving the relationship)
It gets annoying her shit testing me about breaking up. One time, when we had our "break up", I txtd her right afterwards saying, "Real bf/gf don't do that. It's cool... We can still be friends.
" blablabla. N she was tryna play it off at first, but she wanting back in after a few min. So my question is, next time she threatens to... "break up", or even threatens to go with another guy to home coming, or something... what should I do? I'm thinking about saying, "No honestly, you really wanna bring another guy to home coming?" Her, "Yeah". Me: Shake my head as if she just said something stupid, then go away from her, not saying a word.
But the whole world of suck that awaits you if you dont go will be worse.