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| Author: | themarquis [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 10:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | WAY into me at first, then nothin! |
went to a party past weekend and there was this girl who i caught immediate eye contact with, she came up to me, very close and she was farking hot. Physical contact happened right away. She ended up wondering off so I went with a friend to grab beer and got back and kept mingling, i was more focused on seeing people I hadn't seen in months. She ended up finding me again and this time we started kissing, she said how good looking i was and how she liked my eyes, we exchange numbers and she calls to make sure its mine. Then she texts me half hour after she leaves to make sure i have her number and expresses we should really hang out. So I'm gold right? Wrong. next day i send simple text: me: "hey you missed a rad after party!" then we text about where we may have seen each other from before, because we both recognized each other from somewhere when we first met. short convo about that ensues then she stopped replying. So ya i get kind of instant vibe she isn't as excited to be texting with me as she was previous night but whatever i play it cool. I then invite her to this show im planning to be at and her reply is she's thinking she will go. We keep convo going with texts every so often. Turns out she is having "serious serious" family drama so understandably she couldn't go. I suppose this could have been an excuse but im thinking its actually true, gonna for sure give benefit of the doubt on this. So I say how i understand and sorry to hear that but i hope we can hang out soon. She replies yes for sure and it will blow over soon. Ok so I'm cool, this seemed to explain the sort of serious demeanor on texting. I initiated other small conversations the next day, asked if she was doing ok, she talked about it a little, we got into music interests so i emailed her a song i tracked (and this is important, perhaps sounds douchy or not believable but you have to assume its true to understand the situation: I'm good at music, singing and writing. Its well performed and a good song very relevant style. Not bragging but this is kind of an important detail to sending a chick music). She is down and says she will check it out when she can. Not sure that she even listened to it or what that was yesterday afternoon havent heard from her since, i only sent one other random text a bit later, something funny about my sweet mustache (which she complimented the other night so i would think it would have gone over well). Point of all of that is her interest level seems farking low compared to the party and I'm not sure how to go about it, very into this girl (not just in a hook up way like she seems to be actually a cool person). I havent texted at all today and was not planning to until day after tomorrow but when i do I have no idea what approach i should take. I'm really not feeling a vibe through the texting, in this case i feel its just not working and wish i could just get her somewhere in person again Any suggestions?? |
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| Author: | TheLastWolf [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 3:21 am ] |
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Shit might be fucked in her life, give her time to come around. |
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| Author: | themarquis [ Fri Oct 08, 2010 8:15 pm ] |
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no other advice on this? |
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| Author: | Captain Morgan [ Fri Oct 08, 2010 8:53 pm ] |
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Honestly man, logistically think about it....if she so quickly came up to you, what makes you think you are special, she probably does this with a lot of guys..way to control them...lives moment to moment...once you are gone out of sight out of mind... Honestly, she might have been on something too, you never know...move on...ANY girl who is attractive and makes a move towards YOU/a guy should immediately be suspect...it is not normal and is something you have to especially neg....in my opinion! Cpt |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Sat Oct 09, 2010 2:27 am ] |
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Of course her energy level will drop from a night of boozin' and kissin'. Your 'energy' should shift as well. At this moment, she thinks that you're only contacting her because she gave you some play and you think you can get more. Yes, she gave you some play because she wants to suck your cock. . . and yes you can get more. The trick is that you can't make it seem as if that's the only reason you're contacting her again, again, and again. You ALREADY sucked face with her so relax. You will get more. You don't need to bend over backwards and go nutty to get more. Just treat her as a PERSON and treat her as a friend. ANY TIME that you are alone with her, you will get play. |
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