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| Author: | Dev [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 9:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Day trip with long bus ride |
Ok I admit I wasnt sure where to put this, I think its a bit advanced for general questions, but then again it doesnt seem to fit anywhere else. So I have being reading about pua for some time now. But would still call myself a noob. Ive probably opened around 70 sets in the past 8 months. Heres the story. Im going on a trip in 3 weeks (work related) and lo and behold the girl Im going with is a HB7. We are taking a 2 hour bus ride to a city, when we get there she has to meet someone in the finance section for 10 minutes (or so we were told) and then after that we have the day to ourselves in the city. I know shes somewhat interested in me as last year we did a lot of flirting and she admitted she liked me but she had a bf- and that wasnt an excuse. But I left it at that and we stayed as friends. I often wonder since we were flirting and it was getting pretty serious (until I stupidly brought the boyfriend subject up) would she have actually went with it. Anyway. As of 2 months ago shes now single. So I reckon I might have a chance again. But heres my biggest problem. Normally Im very energetic and keep a convo going and general good vibes. And the minute I get the hint of a long silence coming Im gone. This works for me. But 2 hours on a bus? How am I supposed to keep that up. I dunno if I can rhyme off 2 hours worth of stories and jokes. How do I keep her interest up for that length of time? Though I reckon it has its advantages. We're isolated and will be sitting 2 inches away from each other for a good 2 hours. So plenty of easy kino. As for the city, its a brand new place for both of us. So it should be easy enough to keep everything fun. Though Id love to hear some advice/routines if you have any. Here's how I was thinking of doing everything. First bus ride = ???? Day in the city = have fun, lots of push-pull, lots of teasing, lots of kino, Bus ride home = kiss close My place = I wish |
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| Author: | Savlon [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 10:24 am ] |
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Quote: So I reckon I might have a chance again.
You're puting her on a pedestal lol.. take her down now!i thnk you're worrying too much about pleasing her... seriously you dont need to entertain her every second of the 2 hour long trip... entertain her a bit and sit there in a comfortable silence and repeat the process... if you think it'll be weird then it will be weird! you must think positive my friend... Remember you are the prize! she might not want to rekindle that flame that you say you had a while ago... it may be past the point of no return... plus you work with her dont you? my advice is dont shit where you sleep lol but good luck brother hope it all works out |
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| Author: | Dev [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 10:07 pm ] |
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Yeh Im worried that she could be past the point of wanting more. Generally speaking, is it really a point of no return..?? If she seems to be not interested is it even worth trying? Or is it something that can be reversed? As for mixing work and personal. Im not too bothered as our branch of the company is closing down in the next 6-8 months so I'll be leaving town for a different branch and shes planning on going back to college as a mature student. I'll try what you said about taking breaks.... but I wish I could field test it before I do it with her. Sitting there being quiet is kinda the opposite of what I have being striving for in this whole pua thing. It just seems kinda counter-intuitive, though logically it makes sense. |
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| Author: | Savlon [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 2:32 am ] |
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Yeh well i usually call this the point of no return because it takes wayyyyy to long to recover from it and when/if you do.. nothing is ever the same... give it a go if you want... what have you got to lose? she rejects you? who cares lol if you've been playing the game right so far then you would have been rejected many of times and its like water off a ducks back Ok yeh i understand that your not bothered with it, however she might be bothered with it... hahaha yeh it would be good if we could see into the future to watch how things pan out but where would the fun in that be? i know this is counter-intuitive to just sit there in silence when you've been taught to talk your ass off... this type of pickup is longer then the usual one lasting around 20 minutes... think of this as a 2 hour set but instead of talking the whole time, you're adding breaks in between to build comfort |
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