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Author:  anti-chief [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 6:51 pm ]
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I'll start by saying thanks for taking the time out to read my bullshit lol.. A word of advice would be helpful.. Post Post Post! =]

I'll try an make this as short as possible bare with me, if your not interested in helpin a fellow pua I understand read no further.

So basically I met this chick quickly exchanged facebooks.. We exchanged some Inbox msg.. I get her number.. An everything was perfect.. We'd been spending hours on the phone every night she's textin me all day even if I don't respond.. I even left my current girlfriend after a week of us talkin..After two weeks of that we decide to meet up.. She was forced to place a time constriant on our time( two hours).. Everything went smoothy, flirting touching blah blah blah.. I then began to complain a bit about the time constraint in a playful way.... W/e the day ended with a hug an her tellin me I smell great which I replied " i always do" lol.. She hasn't made much attempt to contact me since that day.. The date was Sunday night it's now Tuesday morn.. We exchanged a few text yesterday but that was it.. Wasn't like usual.. What should I do??
Author:  SpeXXX [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 7:28 pm ]
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Did YOU try to call her?
She's checking if you really want her, and that you don't play games. YOU are the man, YOU are the dominant. YOU are the one who needs to make a move.

And what kind of idiotic comment is "I always do"? - wise ass replies won't get you far.
Just say "thanks", eye contact, and its on. be seductive, be humble - not a cocky arrogant.
Author:  anti-chief [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:00 pm ]
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Did YOU try to call her?
She's checking if you really want her, and that you don't play games. YOU are the man, YOU are the dominant. YOU are the one who needs to make a move.

And what kind of idiotic comment is "I always do"? - wise ass replies won't get you far.
Just say "thanks", eye contact, and its on. be seductive, be humble - not a cocky arrogant.
Dude I call her last night as I normally would... No answer.. Then I text her an half hour lata saying.. " I'm bout to hit the bed for the night.. Say me a prayer :) ttyl"
She replied " hey lol I'm in the studio couldn't pick up I've been slacking soo I NEED to go hard...;) night God bless".( she's a musician) I wrote back " that's cool do ya thing.. It's drizzling over here anyway ;)..night" (insider: I compared her to drizzle a week ago she loved it).. That was it she didn't reply..
Author:  SpeXXX [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:20 pm ]
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Dude I call her last night as I normally would... No answer.. Then I text her an half hour lata saying.. " I'm bout to hit the bed for the night.. Say me a prayer :) ttyl"
She replied " hey lol I'm in the studio couldn't pick up I've been slacking soo I NEED to go hard...;) night God bless".( she's a musician) I wrote back " that's cool do ya thing.. It's drizzling over here anyway ;)..night" (insider: I compared her to drizzle a week ago she loved it).. That was it she didn't reply..
So basically no progress has been made since the meet up. You still got to pursue her, the roles don't change.
Call her to see what's up, im sure she will answer this time. Just don't call her when you know that she is busy or something.
Author:  anti-chief [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:34 pm ]
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Dude I call her last night as I normally would... No answer.. Then I text her an half hour lata saying.. " I'm bout to hit the bed for the night.. Say me a prayer :) ttyl"
She replied " hey lol I'm in the studio couldn't pick up I've been slacking soo I NEED to go hard...;) night God bless".( she's a musician) I wrote back " that's cool do ya thing.. It's drizzling over here anyway ;)..night" (insider: I compared her to drizzle a week ago she loved it).. That was it she didn't reply..
So basically no progress has been made since the meet up. You still got to pursue her, the roles don't change.
Call her to see what's up, im sure she will answer this time. Just don't call her when you know that she is busy or something.
I get that however my point was... Prior to the meet up she would text me all day with these long 160 letter text msg.. After the meet I have to text her together her to text me
Author:  SpeXXX [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:55 pm ]
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I get that however my point was... Prior to the meet up she would text me all day with these long 160 letter text msg.. After the meet I have to text her together her to text me
Don't get it into your head so much, there can be a million reasons why shes acting like that.
Just focus on your goal.
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 10:32 pm ]
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Probably testing you, as stated, take control, give her a call at random, and be straight.

Some people take certain parts of game to serious. You've got and had the date, now take the lead, sort the next date, etc.

Don't go all funny.
Author:  anti-chief [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 10:56 pm ]
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Probably testing you, as stated, take control, give her a call at random, and be straight.

Some people take certain parts of game to serious. You've got and had the date, now take the lead, sort the next date, etc.

Don't go all funny.

Testing me to see if?? What would she be testing for?
Author:  anti-chief [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 2:47 am ]
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I get that however my point was... Prior to the meet up she would text me all day with these long 160 letter text msg.. After the meet I have to text her together her to text me
Don't get it into your head so much, there can be a million reasons why shes acting like that.
Just focus on your goal.
Called her tonight at 10 ( usually call at 11 or 12).. No answer lol.. I'm outta options
Author:  Fender43 [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 5:11 am ]
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okay man heres your next move in this situation, its not complicated or anything at all, if you guys are serious about eachother all you have to do is one thing

wait it out

let her miss the shit out of you

you made your move and now you need to move on, you dont need to wait for some broad to pick up the phone, just get on with your life, and she will come flocking back to you no joke.

good luck
Fender43
Author:  Slywalker [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 5:23 am ]
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Here is what your problem is, you are wasting all this time and all these calories for on one girl? You could have picked up six others in the same time, keep many balls in the air and you will worry less, trust me on that son, and read my post "10 things..." linked below, you will understand, trust me!
And for this girl, play it cool and casual, wait a week and then ask her out
Author:  Chelios [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 7:03 am ]
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I get that however my point was... Prior to the meet up she would text me all day with these long 160 letter text msg.. After the meet I have to text her together her to text me
Don't get it into your head so much, there can be a million reasons why shes acting like that.
Just focus on your goal.
Called her tonight at 10 ( usually call at 11 or 12).. No answer lol.. I'm outta options
Testing to see how much you like her, girls play funny games. Seen as you called and had no answer, ditch that method for a day or 2.

See if you get a response, if not and you like her, try one more time, but don't put all your eggs in one basket, you only dated once, and you could do better!
Author:  Shinigaml [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 7:19 am ]
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I think you are giving yourself to her too easily and she kind of just wants space.

Give it a week before sending anything back and see if she replies. Reply afte a week and tell her that you were really busy for the past week and had no time for her. She obviously likes you if she even thought of dating and etcetc (all the things you mentioned). Now, let her experience a feeling of losing you. Attraction builds the most when you are about to lose that person. Even if you somehow magically get her to be your gf (if that is your mission), I doubt it will last for long. Be unpredictable and don't give yourself away so easily.
Author:  Ezo [ Sat Oct 09, 2010 10:03 am ]
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Ok, I see a couple of problems here...

You dumped your girlfriend because of a person you hadnt even met? How can you know that there will be any chemistry between the two of you? When people havent met, they can afford to be different from irl. Then you meet and you see that the person you thought was cool and awesome is different from what you see in front of you. It loses the magic. The person is a bit more shy, a bit more reserved, not like your fantasy made it out to be.

Thats what I think happened. You werent the same guy. Online, you can go harder, faster and push it in a way that is difficult to do later, because it will either be too fast, or too awkward. So, yeah, you take the step from not seeing, to seeing, touching, and then what? Are you gonna do her within the 2 hours you spent together? Not likely.

Anticlimax.

Or she could be doing a takeaway to see if you are gonna be pushing it even after you met her.
I mean, she is a player too, like most girls.

What I would do:
Just act like before, same battime same batchannel. Act as if nothing is wrong and nothing special happened. Above all, dont freak out.
Author:  Diego1234567 [ Sat Oct 09, 2010 10:16 am ]
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text her something like "oh my god, i have the craziest thing to show you!" whatever she texts back reply with "when are you free?". if she decides to come over then think that its ON.

be all touchy feely, suggestive in your wordplay and close to her like 6inches from her face. also be honest with her that you were nervous, she'll give you points for it and probably be willing to wait longer. remember, the truth shall set you free.

read up some gunwitch or 60years and kino esc and sexual state. dim the lights, put a red shirt over a few lamps.


flip on 'sexual healing' or 'lets get it on' by Marvin Gaye.

GAME ON

or just get her ridiculously drunk
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