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Author:  youngstallion [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 11:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Teasing and holding back?
My girlfriend of a month has turned into a huge cock tease. Most of the time if I go in for a kiss she will move back in a playful manner making me go in for a few more times. I call her on it all the time but when i try it back she gets mad. Another thing she did when I had her down to her panties and she starts to rub me off then stops saying "next time" which she said about the time before. She was also on her period she said though so she wouldn't let me take the rest off no matter how many times I tried. So much question is how do I counter this teasing shes doing? Some techniques that work for guys to tease girls or things that can get them turned on faster?
Also it took about a hour just to get her down to that with lots of kissing. Also she said when I just got her down to her pants" This is as far as your getting today" Like she predetermined it. All help advice is welcomed :)
Author:  twisted66 [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 3:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Teasing and holding back?
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My girlfriend of a month has turned into a huge cock tease. Most of the time if I go in for a kiss she will move back in a playful manner making me go in for a few more times. I call her on it all the time but when i try it back she gets mad. Another thing she did when I had her down to her panties and she starts to rub me off then stops saying "next time" which she said about the time before. She was also on her period she said though so she wouldn't let me take the rest off no matter how many times I tried. So much question is how do I counter this teasing shes doing? Some techniques that work for guys to tease girls or things that can get them turned on faster?
Also it took about a hour just to get her down to that with lots of kissing. Also she said when I just got her down to her pants" This is as far as your getting today" Like she predetermined it. All help advice is welcomed :)
With my gf it has actually been just over a month and I can tell you that if she was to tell me that's as far as I'm going today I would without hesitation get her out of my place ( unless it was past 1am and she can't get home I'm not a complete asshole...) or would of left her place right there and then. If she didn't apologize for that crap within the next day it would be over.
I don't know how you are even dealing with her
Author:  youngstallion [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 10:57 pm ]
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I thought about that but the thing is though she is really stubborn and wouldn't apologize.
Author:  V3nu [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 6:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Teasing and holding back?
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My girlfriend of a month has turned into a huge cock tease. Most of the time if I go in for a kiss she will move back in a playful manner making me go in for a few more times. I call her on it all the time but when i try it back she gets mad. Another thing she did when I had her down to her panties and she starts to rub me off then stops saying "next time" which she said about the time before. She was also on her period she said though so she wouldn't let me take the rest off no matter how many times I tried. So much question is how do I counter this teasing shes doing? Some techniques that work for guys to tease girls or things that can get them turned on faster?
Also it took about a hour just to get her down to that with lots of kissing. Also she said when I just got her down to her pants" This is as far as your getting today" Like she predetermined it. All help advice is welcomed :)
My friend .... it is .... simple.... you .... are .... WHIPPED!!!!

I know you are probably thinking "fuck you V3nu", but straight up, who is the man in the relationship? She is clearly controlling you with sex... There are 3 options for you my friend:

1. You do nothing, keep getting used, and in the end you will get cheated on...

I have seen this problem with my own buddies, and man.... It's a shitty situation, and kind of sucks, so if I was you I would go for option number 2:

2. Put her in her place even if she gets mad and doesn't give you any, put your foot down and stand by it.

It all comes down to you being too desperate and getting some even if you are getting used, OR you are not desperate and willing to lose her for a healthier relationship.

On the other hand it may be YOU and NOT HER, if you had a girlfriends before and the same thing happened or if the same thing happens in the future. It maybe that you don;t have the balls to stand up to the girl OR subconsciously you just like being controlled without realizing it, which is NOT a bad thing!
Some people are submissive some are dominant (I'm not talking about fetishes, just relationship dynamics) , some are switches, it all comes down to what makes you happy and what do you want from the relationship....

Cheers
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 1:47 pm ]
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The way to avoid this problem in the future is to make sure the whole context of the relationship is framed in the right way. The only way she would be doing this is if the power dynamic is set so that she is the dominant one, and she is allowing you, when she feels like it, to have sex with her. This is the kind of dynamic you get into when you supplicate, buy her dinners, ask her if she want to do things, always agree with her, and generally all the AFC things we tell you not to do.

The way to avoid this problem generally, including now, is to make sure you play push-pull. Get her interested, escalate, and always be the first to break contact. Go in for a kiss, and stop first. Go in 90% and make her go the extra 10. Go in and then pull back to make her go an extra 50%. Then give her a full one as a reward but be the one to break first. When you move up the kino ladder, always break first, then re-engage. This makes her want you to continue, rather than feeling like you're forcing her to do it and she's just lying there complying.

Be dominant in the bedroom and always TELL her what you want her to do. NEVER ask. Before you do something, whisper into her ear what you're going to do first, then do it. Part of good foreplay is building up the excitement of the EXPECTATION of what's going to happen. This will make her want it even more.

[As a little trick, I never give the girl the chance to keep her panties on because I take them off together with their jeans / skirt at the same time.]
Author:  youngstallion [ Mon Oct 11, 2010 7:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Teasing and holding back?
[quote="V3nu"][quote="youngstallion"]My girlfriend of a month has turned into a huge cock tease. Most of the time if I go in for a kiss she will move back in a playful manner making me go in for a few more times. I call her on it all the time but when i try it back she gets mad. Another thing she did when I had her down to her panties and she starts to rub me off then stops saying "next time" which she said about the time before. She was also on her period she said though so she wouldn't let me take the rest off no matter how many times I tried. So much question is how do I counter this teasing shes doing? Some techniques that work for guys to tease girls or things that can get them turned on faster?
Also it took about a hour just to get her down to that with lots of kissing. Also she said when I just got her down to her pants" This is as far as your getting today" Like she predetermined it. All help advice is welcomed :)[/quote]

My friend .... it is .... simple.... you .... are .... WHIPPED!!!!

I know you are probably thinking "fuck you V3nu", but straight up, who is the man in the relationship? She is clearly controlling you with sex... There are 3 options for you my friend:

1. You do nothing, keep getting used, and in the end you will get cheated on...

I have seen this problem with my own buddies, and man.... It's a shitty situation, and kind of sucks, so if I was you I would go for option number 2:

2. Put her in her place even if she gets mad and doesn't give you any, put your foot down and stand by it.

It all comes down to you being too desperate and getting some even if you are getting used, OR you are not desperate and willing to lose her for a healthier relationship.

On the other hand it may be YOU and NOT HER, if you had a girlfriends before and the same thing happened or if the same thing happens in the future. It maybe that you don;t have the balls to stand up to the girl OR subconsciously you just like being controlled without realizing it, which is NOT a bad thing!
Some people are submissive some are dominant (I'm not talking about fetishes, just relationship dynamics) , some are switches, it all comes down to what makes you happy and what do you want from the relationship....

Cheers[/quote]
Well she did do it again but I just started to pull up my jeans when she was said no next time. Then she stopped me and started then to give me a bj just completely stopped after 2 seconds pulling up my pants so I ignored her and watched tv. Then she got mad all and started a fight lol.

[quote][As a little trick, I never give the girl the chance to keep her panties on because I take them off together with their jeans / skirt at the same time.][/quote]


O ya Thanks this did help me with your little trick. Would of saved me a lot of time last time but at least I know now pants and panties come off in unison.
Author:  V3nu [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 10:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Teasing and holding back?
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Well she did do it again but I just started to pull up my jeans when she was said no next time. Then she stopped me and started then to give me a bj just completely stopped after 2 seconds pulling up my pants so I ignored her and watched tv. Then she got mad all and started a fight lol.
I mean what can you say.... if it was me I would not put up with this shit and either have a talk about her behavior or just dump her, but that's me...
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