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| Author: | Lone [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 4:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Strange experience that worked... strangely |
OK, so I'm an RAFC, still working on AA. This happened before I'd even heard of The Game (a few months ago). Anyway, I work in an office and one day this new HB9 starts - some other guys googled her name and she popped up in all these fashion catalogues, even some covers. From day one they're all over her, asking her what she does, etc., like every guy she would have ever met. Out of shyness I ignored her for the first few days, not even making eye contact. Then one day I'm making a coffee and she comes in, just us two. Without looking up I say, ''Hi, it's XXXXX, right?'' she says, "Yeah, Hi." I ignore her a bit more, then look straight at her and say, "Don't expect to be able to use this thing straight away. Lot of skill involved in making coffee." She smiles and I said, "But, you know, give it a go," and stood aside. I should point out that I was shitting myself at this point, but somehow wasn't showing it. She started making a coffee then turned around and said, "So, how long have you worked here?" I said something like, "Too long..." Then there was an awkward silence. She broke it by saying, "It was so cold outside this morning." Then I did something really weird. I meant to laugh, but it came out like a loud, throaty choke noise, as if someone was doing the heimlich maneouvre (?) on me. A loud, "Huuuch." It was a strange moment. I looked up at her and smiled, then I walked out and back to my desk. She looked as if she didn't know what had hit her. Funny thing was I felt it wasn't such a bad thing. I felt kind of confident as soon as it happened. I ignored her the next few times we passed each other, even though I saw her trying to make eye contact. Then the next time I gave her a big smile, looked her in the eyes and said, "Hi." She gave me a big smile, squeaked a, "Hi," back, and blushed. I fucked it all up by talking to her after that and coming across as way too desperate (I'm guessing), but it made me realise that really hot girls get awkward, too, and get just as neurotic about social situations as anyone else. If I had game, I could have used that approach to move forward with her. Either way, it was a strange but powerful neg, one that I'll probably never replicate, but I thought some PUAs might have some comments on what they think happened there. |
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| Author: | TheLastWolf [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 4:23 pm ] |
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You weren't paying attention to her and she wanted to know why. Once she found out(by her own deductions) that you were shy, she moved on. You should've kept ignoring her and leaving conversations short. |
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| Author: | ImNaShitFool [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 4:31 pm ] |
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you were doing good.. You just should have avoided the awkward silence by not just stoping at "too long".. You should have been like "oh, too long.. cuz this blah blah blah.. does blah, you know? So blah do u blah?" then she goes, "oh I blah blah blah" simple enough? this guy chief on here said u should make a list of 10 things you look for in a girl, and use those things as conversation subjects.. then you can use those to keep the dialogue going.. & just throw in a little game & keep her interest up and your good... |
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