PUA Forum :: Hitting the Off Switch on your game.

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That's some sound advice. Besides, building a rep can only help, right? It sure as shit worked at home when I told a girl I'd had sex with someone else last week/the other day/yesterday even though I wasn't using it as any kind of DHV.

Well, better to be a bit more subtle. There are a few ways of doing this. The first is introducing past relationships into your conversation during the pickup as part of your DHV stories. Next is to only see the girl about once a week to have the background assumption that things are casual. Finally, if she does bring it up, assure her that you are willing to commit in the future, but it's not what you're looking for right now, so if she wants to continue having fun then she should realise what either of you to get up to when you're not together is nobody's business. After sleeping with her a few times you can also talk about whether she's ever kissed a girl, if she likes experimenting, and then introduce 3-somes that way. Best time to get her to be honest and open to talking about this stuff is when you're cuddling after sex.

Author:	Art Sandusky [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 2:35 pm ]
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I'm in a fairly unique situation. I boned up on PUA techniques/ideas and totally changed my mindset on women and life in general in preparation for going on my mid-tour leave from this deployment. Everything went well when I went home, but it might have gone TOO well. Now that I'm back here in the asshole of the Universe known as Afghanistan, I still feel compelled to sarge every woman on this outpost. I'm trying my best not to shit where I eat, but the deployment goggles are going to become too much to bear and I know I'll end up screwing the pooch (almost literally in some of these cases) if I can't turn this off. There are no implicit rules that bar Soldiers from having relationships (hell, the aid station has condoms for people to take), but I've made a pledge to myself to not fuck anything in uniform while I'm still in the Army myself. Should I just say "fuck it" and game on or what? I mean, there are a couple of non-swamp donkeys here but I don't think I want to deal with any possible drama. It's not like I can stay in my part of town until the heat dies down or anything.

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 2:41 pm ]
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I don't see the problem. Sarge the fuck out of these women, they are your only option. You can work on MLTR stuff so that you make sure they are happy with you seeing multiple other women, and that way they can still know each other and even if you break up it won't be awkward.

Author:	Art Sandusky [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 2:50 pm ]
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That's some sound advice. Besides, building a rep can only help, right? It sure as shit worked at home when I told a girl I'd had sex with someone else last week/the other day/yesterday even though I wasn't using it as any kind of DHV.

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 4:27 pm ]
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Quote: That's some sound advice. Besides, building a rep can only help, right? It sure as shit worked at home when I told a girl I'd had sex with someone else last week/the other day/yesterday even though I wasn't using it as any kind of DHV. Well, better to be a bit more subtle. There are a few ways of doing this. The first is introducing past relationships into your conversation during the pickup as part of your DHV stories. Next is to only see the girl about once a week to have the background assumption that things are casual. Finally, if she does bring it up, assure her that you are willing to commit in the future, but it's not what you're looking for right now, so if she wants to continue having fun then she should realise what either of you to get up to when you're not together is nobody's business. After sleeping with her a few times you can also talk about whether she's ever kissed a girl, if she likes experimenting, and then introduce 3-somes that way. Best time to get her to be honest and open to talking about this stuff is when you're cuddling after sex.

Author:	twisted66 [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 10:43 pm ]
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Or you could just not shit where you eat and keep ur dick in ur panths while ur there. I'm not saying to completely avoid women but unless you can be subtle try not to cause any undesired situations... Anyhow it is up to you to evaluate the rewards bs consequences to see if it is worth it. Good luck

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Author:	Art Sandusky [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 9:11 am ]
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Quote: Quote: That's some sound advice. Besides, building a rep can only help, right? It sure as shit worked at home when I told a girl I'd had sex with someone else last week/the other day/yesterday even though I wasn't using it as any kind of DHV. Well, better to be a bit more subtle. There are a few ways of doing this. The first is introducing past relationships into your conversation during the pickup as part of your DHV stories. Next is to only see the girl about once a week to have the background assumption that things are casual. Finally, if she does bring it up, assure her that you are willing to commit in the future, but it's not what you're looking for right now, so if she wants to continue having fun then she should realise what either of you to get up to when you're not together is nobody's business. After sleeping with her a few times you can also talk about whether she's ever kissed a girl, if she likes experimenting, and then introduce 3-somes that way. Best time to get her to be honest and open to talking about this stuff is when you're cuddling after sex. Honesty delivered in a frank manner is how I roll, which is how recent exploits would come up. Ask me something, I'm going to give you a flat-out answer to the best of my knowledged. I suppose you could say it's being myself to the hilt. All this "seeing her once a week" and other stuff is fine in the civilian world, but this is a walled-in FOB with only about 200-300 denizens tops. You're going to see people around. I'm good at acting casual about things and subtle, so that won't be an issue. I don't have a good poker face when actually playing poker, but my social poker face is fantastic. Also working in my favor is that no one here would expect little old me to be getting any ass. Well, none of the guys anyway. Of course the women will talk in their little clandestine network since the ratio here is something like 20:1. Keeping my dick in my pants is definitely an option that I've weighed. It's just really hard (as in it takes genuine effort) to not try and pick up the women here that are at least drunk fuckable. Deployment goggles are a whole different kind of beast, I've never encountered this before. As far as "consequences" go, as long as I'm not trying to bang NCOs or officers it's all good. You wouldn't believe how quickly it got depraved in this place. Think male Soldiers are horndogs? The women are worse!

Author:	SeanArcher [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 1:55 pm ]
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I switched it OFF sometime in second year of university. This was after learning all I felt I needed to know and doing a successful boyfriend killer. But after the BFK I had an opportunity to f-close. Basically she wandered into my room at night when I had the lights off, music videos playing and a candle lit. I didn't do anything. I figured I had the skills I needed and just wanted to wait for Ms. Right. I've never believed in quantity vs quality. Anyway, the other issue was that university had zero hotties (engineering school) so I was essentially not stimulated. If there are hot women around, I would say keep your skills sharp and go for it. Oorah brother.

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