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Author:  alwaysfrosty [ Fri Oct 01, 2010 10:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Not responding to texts b4 "date/hang out"
So awhile ago I posted about the girls in my university classes. I ended up asking the one I felt that had the most attraction (IOIs) and comfort towards me. We would sit together in class and talk ever since school started. I just built up the courage to ask her to hang out with me. Now I guess I'm getting flaked.... (let me explain)

I just recently started throwing negs at her and teasing. But she usually responds with "sorry..."
For example:
Me: "If you're still sick by next week, I'm going to call you sick (name of girl)."
Her: "I'm sorry...."
I do them with a smile/playful tone too. Am I just negging wrong?

So thursday I grew a pair and invited her to come hang out saturday.
Me: "My friend told me about this really cool candy shop in.... Have you ever been there?"
Her: "Yeah, it's really nice."
Me: "Good, because you're coming with me this saturday. You can show me where it is." (playful tone)
Her: "umm... ok"
Me: "I'm actually being serious."
Her: "umm... ok"
Me: "Nice, you can be my suga mama"
So after class I made her pinky promise me but I don't know if she heard what i made her promise, she was in a rush to another class.

The Problem
I text messaged her twice that day cuz I ran into her later that day but she didn't see/hear me (it's a long story).
My texts:
Me: "thanks for ignoring me back there. lol"
Her: "sorry I don't look at ppl when i walk...."
Me: (I just explained to her the details of what happened.)
She didn't respond.

So today, Friday:
My texts:
Me: "The weirdest thing just happened... I just saw this cat in the street that looks exactly like you. Message (me back) quickly so I know a wizard hasn't turned u into a cat lol." (this is Alex Coulson's material.)

No response after 15 minutes. I kinda thought that the text above was really weird and lame so I panicked and sent her this:

Me: "Wait... this is (name of a girl with the same first name but different last name) right?"

I thought it might also be DHV cuz I'm texting some other girl and got mixed up with a different girl with the same first name.... What do you guys think about that?

So it's been over 4 hours since that text and I still haven't gotten a response. I guess the hang out tomorrow isn't going to happen. I just got flaked.
Any advice on what happened will be greatly appreciated!
Author:  jjbrog [ Sat Oct 02, 2010 12:15 am ]
Post subject: 
Sorry to say it man, she's a waste of time. not sayin you're doing this but also don't put all your eggs in one basket either. Women are naturally flaky, most are when it comes to the nitty gritty.

When I end up tryin for a chick that acts that way I NEXT them immediately. Some of the stuff was pretty funny though, like the cat thing and all, that was hilarious actually, lol but seriously, I wouldn't bother, if you're not worth her time, she sure as hell isn't worth yours.

I go through this shit a with many chicks, we all do, even the best of us, but what we got to do is keep many lined up! Then the one useless one won't bug us so much.

Hell I had a hot as girl acting all cool and into me 2 days ago, now she won't return my texts, but thats ok I'm going to meet a hot blond later and this hot mexican chick's been on my nuts all week, and I got a fuck buddy I can get over every weekend, so I don't give a shit, lol
Author:  Solteris [ Sat Oct 02, 2010 1:06 am ]
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If this girl was truly interested in something, she'd have done something by now. Hate to be that blunt about it but thats whats up plain and simple.

No big deal though, just dont invest anymore in her and move on. Thats the beautiful thing about not caring...this can happen millions of times but the time a girl follows up, thats the one you want to invest with.

Dont let this be a shot at your ego or anything, everything is statistic based anyway. The quicker you keep your heart out of this game, the sooner you're gonna get those kinds of women that are worth keeping.
Author:  alwaysfrosty [ Sat Oct 02, 2010 8:35 pm ]
Post subject: 
Thank you guys so much for the advice.
I'll just have to move on and not care about the girl. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

A few hours after I first posted, I was able to go to a dance party with my friends and had a great time. It was the perfect medicine to forget about her.
Author:  SRVisGod24 [ Sun Oct 03, 2010 1:32 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Thank you guys so much for the advice.
I'll just have to move on and not care about the girl. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

A few hours after I first posted, I was able to go to a dance party with my friends and had a great time. It was the perfect medicine to forget about her.
There you go man! Forget about her. To be honest she doesn't sound all the special anyway! Forget about her, be your regular social self and before you know it you'll have more women than you'll know what to do with!! 8)
Author:  alwaysfrosty [ Sun Oct 03, 2010 2:52 am ]
Post subject: 
Thanks for the support csi24! I really appreciate it.

I love how everyone is so supportive and helpful on this forum. I promise that when I understand the techniques/material better and gain a lot more experience, I'll return the favor (of what you ppl have done for me) to the future AFCs (or existing PUAs if I get good enough) who will join this forum.
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