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| Author: | ImNaShitFool [ Fri Oct 01, 2010 4:53 pm ] |
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ok, I recently started doing my homework.. till now ive only had a basic outline of how this game works, but after reading alot of work from mystery, tyler durden, david deangelo & gambler everything is starting to come into focus so im going to share with anyone new to this what I've learned so far. First things first: This is called GAME for a reason, Its exactly that... If you want to WIN this game, you cannot take anything personal or involve your emotions in it. If a Girl rejects you.. Dont get mad, dont beat yourself up.. Its JUST like loosing in street fighter cuz you got the wrong combo for the special move.. Do you sit around and pout when that happens? no, You hit the rematch button and try again.. same principle here.. Just hit the rematch button with another girl. How Attraction Works Simplified: Females do not look for potential mates the same way men do, we are VISUAL we judge 90% by looks only, females use all the other senses, when a female sees a good looking man, she doesn't feel automatically aroused like we do, she Feels INTEREST, she wants to know MORE about him.. So INTEREST is the key to building attraction, which is why mystery used techniques like magic tricks and cold reading because its really INTERESTING when someone can guess a number in your head, or bend a fork without touching it... Being funny, is interesting, telling stories is interesting, you see where im going with this? The Hungry Dont Get Fed/Cat String Theory: The hungry Dont Get Fed Refers to the Idea that its better if you Dont Push yourself on Girls, And Never Seek Approval... you should always appear as if you could take it or leave it... she should be pushing herself on you and seeking YOUR approval, if she see's you doing it, She WILL NOT. the idea is to use your personality to build interest so shes constantly seeking your attention, this is where sense of humor, negging & cockiness come in handy... the cat string theory basically means your attention should be dangled in front of your target, the way you would tease a cat with a string, alwaaaaayys just out of her reach, but just close enough to make her jump for it... if you give her the string.. she will loose interest. Approach Anxiety & being "in state": Theres alot of explanations for it, but I like tyler durdens the best, Your own self image is what prevents you from approach, inside your head there is a image of yourself the way you want to be seen, and when were chickening out its because we associate our self image with the approach, because in our minds we HAVE to feel like we are good with women, We cant take the shot to our ego we'd receive if we were rejected so as a defense mechanism to keep our self image in tact we avoid the possibility of rejection by never approaching to break this you need to disassociate the outcome of your actions from your self image in your mind. this alone has made me feel WAY better about myself, and much more comfortable with any outcome cuz I know understand that the Self image is really just my ego & there's no real consequence for not living up to it. now i feel more in state.. and way more in control. Openers: An Opener is not a pick up line, its not a compliment, its just a conversation starter.. Mystery liked to use alot of opinion based openers using topics girls LOVED to talk about.. Like Relationships, fashion & so on.. Why? because the more they keep talking the more opportunity he had to interject with little DHV's & Negs. its kinda like in boxing when someone is a counter puncher.. They Agitate their opponent untill they swing more wild and more frequently, every swing gives the counter puncher an opportunity to evade the blow and retaliate with one of his own.. By Getting your target(s) Talking up a storm... Your not only making them more emotionally invested in you, but your giving yourself ammo to use because its only a matter of time before someone says something you can turn into a neg, or some kind of pun or what have you... you can use that to raise your value and increase their interest in you... Mystery said in groups he would alienate the target, and give attention to everyone except for the one he wanted... she would then try to get his attention & when she earned it (3 IOI's) he could set her up to isolate & close. Thats what I got so far... I'll make another post when I learn anything new... |
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| Author: | kilativ15 [ Fri Oct 01, 2010 8:21 pm ] |
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Good posts, especially for beginners! |
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