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| Author: | SwaggerDontStop [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 3:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Fear of rejection (Help) |
My friend knows how to talk to women but he never asks them out or asks for their number because he's afraid of rejection. I've tried explaining to him that rejection will happen, it's natural and that everyone goes through it, the most a girl can say is "no" and then you're off to the next. He still can't get over that fear so I want to take him out sarging one day to let him get over his fear of rejection, are there any techniques I could use to help him get over it? I have a couple I have learned from watching videos: the technique where he gives me 100 dollars, or something of the sort, and he has one hour to talk to five girls.. For every girl he talks to (even if he gets rejected) I will give him 20 dollars back, if he talks to five girls in the hour he will get all of his money back. Another one is having him go up to a girl and having him tank on purpose to get him used to being rejected, this one was shown to me and helped me get over my fear of rejection, any more I could implement into the day? |
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| Author: | smooth99 [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 3:18 pm ] |
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in my opinion i think that aproach anxiety is the single biggest problem for most men looking to go meet woman . its irrational and embarrassing to admit it but it effects us all at some point. anyway one technique i heard of was to go out with the intent on getting rejected , make it a competition between you and your friend. dont go out and be rude just be yourself and eventually youll realise that , like you said , the worst they can do is say no. if you do this its crucial that you make sure the two of you laugh about it after or it may effect his self esteem. also theres a good chance youll walk away with a number depending on how much you do this. not sure if this will help but just an idea. |
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| Author: | SwaggerDontStop [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 3:27 pm ] |
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Thanks man, I'm thinking that's what I'll have him do, we'll both go out just looking to get rejected and hopefully he realizes that it's not as bad as he makes it out to be. |
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| Author: | smooth99 [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 3:39 pm ] |
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gal i could help mate , maybe also offer a prize . for every 2 rejections = a beer later that night ? hope it all goes well |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 4:27 pm ] |
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You can start by using functional openers where there simply cannot be rejection, e.g asking directions, the time, where the toilets are, etc. You can use openers that massively disqualify you e.g. asking where a girl got her bag because you wanna get one for your girlfriend, or saying if you weren't gay she'd be your type. Also a girl can't actually say the word "no" unless you ask her a yes/no question. Better to lead by making statements, e.g. "let's exchange contact details and hang out again soon" rather than "can I please have your number, can I buy you a drink sometime." |
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| Author: | BrianNPUA [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 4:44 pm ] |
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really easy imo: Approach approach approach. He will get rejected and he will get used to it. This will give him confidence and courage. |
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