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| Author: | Friedrich [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 8:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Getting back into this after sorting out some problems . |
So yeah, to keep a long and complex story short, events in my life meant i was depressed (like proper depression that needed help) for a large portion of this year and need to get help, it's working and i'll be the first to say that game is not really important in comparison to being happy with your life and in particular, family, the people who are your closest. I did stop talking to a lot of people, i'm not going to come out of the closet and explain my irrational behaviour and self criticism, but yeah thats partly because i don't really telling people about my history, hopefully the ones i do want to keep in contact with will understand. Anyways, game is just a part time thing at the minute, not expecting it to go anywhere, but worth the fun. Chick i gamed the other night was dissing nerds (and i mean they were just very noticeable) when we got into the student union party, i bigged the nerds up a bit on the dancefloor to get them social proof but then made a facial gesture to chick suggesting it was a satirical move, everyone was happy, both the nerds and the chick, i personally lol'ed and didn't really respect her, she was trying to qualify herself to me there i think by taking the piss out of 'all the nerds that were spoiling the place' (fyi, i'm a total nerd at heart and i think i did them a favour there because a lot of other people would've saw that kind gesture to them). She asked me to wait for her because she was going to the toilet, guy mate was with me, i told him to "look after" her in the middle of a dancefloor, he ended up trying to find his other girl mates, she ended up alone lmao because i decided i wanted to fuck off. Yes, i count that as a big "neg" (lol at my use of the origianal theories and concepts of game, mystery was a true innovator) but i'll cheer her up tomorrow with a smile and some nice words lol... i don't think i want to know her THAT well because of her looking down on perfectly normal looking people. Got a number off a solid 9 imo, realy clicked and i like her bubbly personality (we'll call her hbbelfastblonde, fyi i said her accent sounded northern irish and unitentionally produced the cold read effect lol). Played solid natural game, i initiated shit and got social proof from the organizer. Initiated kino , received kino back, happy days. Got enough ioi's from her to suggest this is going to lead somewhere. Got photos , she didn't want to be 'alone' in the photos, so i went in with her and generally used that to charm her. I danced with her by spinning me around, she span me back , i charmed her with it more. Asked for my full name. Kept looking at me. ETC. I remember her looking back for me when we were in a big crowd. Didn't try anything further because i actually want to get to know her and her mates (of which there are guys and girls). Her mate wasn't that interested in what the group was doing but i got her to comply on the dancefloor by doing a motion and she did it too along with the whole group. So, won so much by leading, and the other guy became my cameraman haha, but he loves me for it so everyones happy because the girls were happier on the whole. I don't really expect this to go anywhere, but i am hoping to meet her for a Starbucks or something. I wasn't really trying to game her, i just did it unconsciously. I'm sure i'd know what to do if i was advising someone in this same scenario, but hey, i'm kinda stuck for ideas and i actually care about the outcome. kinda thinking of 3 options: 1. chat to her on msn (weak) 2. Get her to me and my SPAM student flats. Good vibes there, nice bunch. 3. Get her to Starbucks (i've kinda forgotten how to do this and i don't feel confident enough at the minute with my ability to do so. ) |
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