PUA Forum :: wtf happened to my game tonite?

So I went clubbing tonight. Fucking depressing night. Pre-drank. Got pretty tipsy. Apparently I have no club game. I'm not ugly or shit. In fact I'm pretty jacked. Every time I try to dance with a set, the girls act like "wtf time to run away"... seriously. The only time I can dance with a set of girls is if I know them from before the night. Wow seriously? What's lame is I knew lots of people at the club tongiht? Isn't that aDHV? So wtf was wrong with trying to high five the girls I was dancing with? Seriously.

And apparently I have no text game either. Or facebook game. Hot girls that I meet at parties keep seeming to DELETE ME FROM FACEBOOK, even though the4y're still facebook friends with my boys who I go to parties with. WAHT THE FUCK IS GOING ON?! I text tehm and I'm like "yo I'll let you know next time I'm partying" and shit like that. They reward me by deleting me from facebook? Fucking bitches wtf.

/end drunken ramble. what a fucked up lame ass night. My cell phone died too while in the club so I had to walk home alone. So fucking depressing. Say some shit so this don't happen again.

Well, you're obviously doing something wrong

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Well, you're obviously doing something wrong

Clearly. I was like an anti-chick magnet lol.

Just can't seem to pinpoint the shit I'm doing wrong. Im alright looking (better looking than a lot of them guys who were there in fact), dressed up fine, pre drank enough. Maybe I predrank too much? Maybe I got too agressive/touchy/drunk? I dunno how what to say. But honestly most times I tried to join a group of people dancing, someone would either try to block me from the circle or they'd move on.

And it's just ONE THING that I'm doing wrong. I know it. BUt I dont know what it is.
It's like I have a giant sign on my forehead that says "RUN FOR YOUR LIFE" or shit.

Are you smiling and having fun yourself before you open sets?

Is your posture open and confident?

Are you always opening nearby sets or are you looking around for a target and walking half the way across the dancefloor to open the hottest HBs?

Instead of pre-gaming at home and then going out, why not start out at a lower energy bar with less loud music, open some sets there and then bounce them to the club afterwards? You walk in with more social proof and have a group you can always come back to if you get blown out.

Author:	Mr. Metal [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 7:19 am ]
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So I went clubbing tonight. Fucking depressing night. Pre-drank. Got pretty tipsy. Apparently I have no club game. I'm not ugly or shit. In fact I'm pretty jacked. Every time I try to dance with a set, the girls act like "wtf time to run away"... seriously. The only time I can dance with a set of girls is if I know them from before the night. Wow seriously? What's lame is I knew lots of people at the club tongiht? Isn't that aDHV? So wtf was wrong with trying to high five the girls I was dancing with? Seriously. And apparently I have no text game either. Or facebook game. Hot girls that I meet at parties keep seeming to DELETE ME FROM FACEBOOK, even though the4y're still facebook friends with my boys who I go to parties with. WAHT THE FUCK IS GOING ON?! I text tehm and I'm like "yo I'll let you know next time I'm partying" and shit like that. They reward me by deleting me from facebook? Fucking bitches wtf. /end drunken ramble. what a fucked up lame ass night. My cell phone died too while in the club so I had to walk home alone. So fucking depressing. Say some shit so this don't happen again.

Author:	N R KEE [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 12:43 pm ]
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Don't post on the internet when you're drunk /thread

Author:	Jav [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 12:55 pm ]
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Quote: So I went clubbing tonight. Fucking depressing night. Pre-drank. Got pretty tipsy. Apparently I have no club game. I'm not ugly or shit. In fact I'm pretty jacked. Every time I try to dance with a set, the girls act like "wtf time to run away"... seriously. The only time I can dance with a set of girls is if I know them from before the night. Wow seriously? What's lame is I knew lots of people at the club tongiht? Isn't that aDHV? So wtf was wrong with trying to high five the girls I was dancing with? Seriously. And apparently I have no text game either. Or facebook game. Hot girls that I meet at parties keep seeming to DELETE ME FROM FACEBOOK, even though the4y're still facebook friends with my boys who I go to parties with. WAHT THE FUCK IS GOING ON?! I text tehm and I'm like "yo I'll let you know next time I'm partying" and shit like that. They reward me by deleting me from facebook? Fucking bitches wtf. /end drunken ramble. what a fucked up lame ass night. My cell phone died too while in the club so I had to walk home alone. So fucking depressing. Say some shit so this don't happen again. Well, you're obviously doing something wrong

Author:	Mr. Metal [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 1:20 pm ]
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Quote: Well, you're obviously doing something wrong Clearly. I was like an anti-chick magnet lol. Just can't seem to pinpoint the shit I'm doing wrong. Im alright looking (better looking than a lot of them guys who were there in fact), dressed up fine, pre drank enough. Maybe I predrank too much? Maybe I got too agressive/touchy/drunk? I dunno how what to say. But honestly most times I tried to join a group of people dancing, someone would either try to block me from the circle or they'd move on. And it's just ONE THING that I'm doing wrong. I know it. BUt I dont know what it is. It's like I have a giant sign on my forehead that says "RUN FOR YOUR LIFE" or shit.

Author:	Jav [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 3:04 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Well, you're obviously doing something wrong Clearly. I was like an anti-chick magnet lol. Just can't seem to pinpoint the shit I'm doing wrong. Im alright looking (better looking than a lot of them guys who were there in fact), dressed up fine, pre drank enough. Maybe I predrank too much? Maybe I got too agressive/touchy/drunk? I dunno how what to say. But honestly most times I tried to join a group of people dancing, someone would either try to block me from the circle or they'd move on. And it's just ONE THING that I'm doing wrong. I know it. BUt I dont know what it is. It's like I have a giant sign on my forehead that says "RUN FOR YOUR LIFE" or shit. Maybe you're looking for a reaction instead of just having fun.

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Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 3:22 pm ]
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Maybe try opening sets at the bar, outside in the smoking area, in the queue getting in, etc. BEFORE trying to dance with them. Are you smiling and having fun yourself before you open sets? Is your posture open and confident? Are you always opening nearby sets or are you looking around for a target and walking half the way across the dancefloor to open the hottest HBs? Instead of pre-gaming at home and then going out, why not start out at a lower energy bar with less loud music, open some sets there and then bounce them to the club afterwards? You walk in with more social proof and have a group you can always come back to if you get blown out.

Author:	Reo [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 4:39 pm ]
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The main problem is your trying to pick up women in the club. Most girls aren't there to meet guys so they have no problem acting like bitches and blowing you off. Way too much other male competition. Then even worst your trying get approach girls on the dance floor when they're with a group of there friends. The dance floor is a trap unless the girls into your looks off the bat no much is going to happen because you can't really talk to them. Common dance floor Scenario: Guy approaches girl on dance floor she may dance with him for 1 or 2 songs but then she disses the guy.

Author:	Mr. Metal [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 5:12 pm ]
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Quote: Are you smiling and having fun yourself before you open sets? I was at first. Then as the night went on and the rejections kept coming I had to fake having fun. Not really sure if drunk chicks in a club can tell though. Quote: Is your posture open and confident? My posture was pretty much drunk. And it was moer than just open. I was high fiving people from the start. Quote: Are you always opening nearby sets or are you looking around for a target and walking half the way across the dancefloor to open the hottest HBs? A combination of both. Usually I don't have to, but it was a pretty small dance floor. So when my next set is actually a previous set that rejected me, I migrate to another section. I even tried to open a HB9 sipping a beer at the bar. I made the classic mistake of not negging. I doomed myself from the start. Quote: Instead of pre-gaming at home and then going out, why not start out at a lower energy bar with less loud music, open some sets there and then bounce them to the club afterwards? You walk in with more social proof and have a group you can always come back to if you get blown out. I was going with a group of friends who wanted to head directly there. I had lots of social proof. I probably knew 20% of the people at that club. But shit... So in conclusion, I guess I did what most guys did and got too drunk instead of just getting a light buzz and remembering the rules of pick up.

Author:	Little Panda [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 6:55 pm ]
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Be honest with yourself or this ain't gonna work. Sit down and think... There must be something unusually weird that you're doing wrong.

Author:	BrianNPUA [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 7:09 pm ]
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My advice is quit drinking or limit yourself to two drinks. I know when I drink I reach a certain point where my game goes downhill. In fact every time I leave a night feeling unsatisfied with my performance I drank too much during the night. Just saying...

Author:	BrianNPUA [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 7:13 pm ]
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Also, try disqualifying yourself (just a little) or disarming the girls a little bit if you notice they auto throw up a wall. You can do this by saying, "I'm not hitting on you, I have a girlfriend". Once you have her attracted, you can explain that you have a girl that is a friend later lol. It works.

Author:	BrianNPUA [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 7:19 pm ]
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One other.. Use double sided complements (i think they are called) I.e. your cute, too bad I only date blonds (if she is brunette and vice versa).

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