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Author:  Marsh [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 12:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Alternative IOI's to look out for
I'm not sure if this is in the rite part or not, so i'm sorry if it isn't!

I'm really good friends with this girl and we've been texting none stop for the last few days, she is very touchy feely and always complimenting me, however she is a very very friendly girl and is quite touchy and keeps good eye contact with most people, male or female.

I think it is much more with me, and i do think she likes me but i can't be 100% sure when she is giving me IOI's because she is so friendly with everyone else.

Are there any other IOI's that i can look out for that a naturally touchy, friendly girl would not do to everyone?

Thankyou for your help :)

I'm sorry if this doesn't make sense! english is not my first language.
Author:  Shyler [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 12:27 pm ]
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I know what you mean some girls are just very open to everyone so it's hard to see if she just likes you or if there is more than that.

Some advice that might help you:
- look if she feels a bit shy or insecure around you, like laughing a lot around you, playing with her hair, not standing idle
- try to find out if she is looking often at you at moments you ar not looking at her.
- look if she smiles when you make eye contact with her
- if she is overloading you with text messages, always wanting to know how you're doing and text messages with no importance (so that she sends to just send you text messages), that's a big IOI.
- if she is constantly qualifying and validating herself to you
- if she wants to meet you often
- if in class or at work constantly wants to be around you
- if she compliments you

Can you give more details on this girl and her behaviour towards you, and how you game(d) her?

I advice you to be cocky funny and sexual to her, but stay hard to get!
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 12:32 pm ]
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Does she try and make excuses to find ways to be around you? Does she ask you a lot of personal questions and what have you? Does she try to show off her assets to you more than she does to other guys? If yes to these questions then there is a chance she is interested in you. The only real way really to tell if such a girl is into you, is to ask her out. Touchy feelly girls tend to be the hardest girls to read as a lot of their actions are IOI in nature and its just part of who they are.
Author:  biggus [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 12:55 pm ]
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Look for unmaskable reactions:

Dilated pupils and hot flushes are good examples,but anything she does with everyone else is background noise and should be ignored so dont read into it too much, unless she is a nympho lol!
Author:  Marsh [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 1:12 pm ]
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Haha! Sadly she's actually quite innocent so i doubt that's the case, they're the type i like though so i don't mind. :P

Thanks for you replies anyway guys, they really helped to clear things up a little and go with what i thought really.

I met her just through hanging out with friends and we got talking more and more, we've since seen each other quite a bit, but always with friends around, since we met she's suddenly started organising a lot more things for us all to do to get together and has text me non stop. I didn't want to push it too far and seem too keen while i wasn't completely sure how she felt though.

I ignored her for a day or two as we were talking too much! and she text the next day sounding worried about that, so i guess thats a good sign. I think the friendliness with everyone else makes me a little paranoid about wether she's interested or not.
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I advice you to be cocky funny and sexual to her, but stay hard to get!
Lucky thats exactly how i've been! i tend not to rely too much on canned material as im quite sarcastic and tricky naturally, i find that mixed in with the occasional sweet comment and a few other techniques tends to do a good job for the girls i like to go for. I focus a lot more on inner game really and just try to be myself. She always mentions how she really likes that i can "give as good as i get" playfully which is good. I'm glad it's the right way to deal with it anyway so thanks!!

I find it very effective making play scenarios so we've been married and divorced about 3 times :lol: and she really plays along and says how "she would do anything for her husband" holding my drinks in clubs etc. I guess that's a kind of way of validating herself and showing how great she'd be and she does compliment me on how comfortable she feels around me a lot.

All good signs really! but again, she is such a friendly girl that it could just be playfulness.

I'll have a better look at how she is with others and look for some of the other things that you have suggested.

Thanks for the tips guys! I appreciate it.
Author:  Bmitchell1876 [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 2:30 pm ]
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There's two problems I see here... First of all it sounds like you've been around this girl alot already and you haven't asked her out, so don't let it go on too long without stating your intent.... Secondly you said "this girl isan innocent girl, which is what you like"... Now this always con cerns the hell outta me when a guy says that cause it is usually followed up by the guy putting her On a pedestal.. Listen very very closely cause this will help your game m more than any other philosophy THERE ARE NO "GOOD GIRLS" ... Ask any true PUA that actually f-closes chicks... The innocent acting ones need to be sexualized more than the rest cause they get treated innocently and virginal by every other AFC she's ever went out with...

Otherwise it sounds like your doing good with her... NOW SETUP A DATE TODAY!!
Author:  Marsh [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 3:06 pm ]
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There's two problems I see here... First of all it sounds like you've been around this girl alot already and you haven't asked her out, so don't let it go on too long without stating your intent.... Secondly you said "this girl isan innocent girl, which is what you like"... Now this always con cerns the hell outta me when a guy says that cause it is usually followed up by the guy putting her On a pedestal.. Listen very very closely cause this will help your game m more than any other philosophy THERE ARE NO "GOOD GIRLS" ... Ask any true PUA that actually f-closes chicks... The innocent acting ones need to be sexualized more than the rest cause they get treated innocently and virginal by every other AFC she's ever went out with...

Otherwise it sounds like your doing good with her... NOW SETUP A DATE TODAY!!
Sorry about that, i might not have explained myself properly, by innocent i just meant she wouldn't jump into bed with everyone and everything that looked at her, which is actually quite a rare thing where i live. I often find the "innocent" ones are some of the naughtiest going if you can gain their trust. I've been looking into this stuff for years and i have made the mistake of putting girls on a pedestal, same as most guys have probably made some AFC mistakes at some point in their game, but i'd like to think i'm past that now. I'm a bit of a geek with the psychology side of things really so i was just looking for any other suggestions to add to my inventory when gaming this type of girl. The eyes and blushing i've looked at but as with most body language things there are a lot of factors that can affect it, such as pupils dilating because they're in a dimly lit room. Thanks for your concern though, it is a great bit of advice and i probably did come across that way at first!

We've met a fair few times but not always for a great amount of time, i'd say we were at the right stage of comfort to start seeing each other without anyone else now, i've been careful not to leave it too long so it gets to the LJBF stage so i wanted a quick check to be sure that its definitely on and then i can take it to the next stage. Again, great bit of advice though so thank you!
Author:  Bmitchell1876 [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 3:18 pm ]
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I love the psychology too!! Good luck with her... "Innocent girls" F••• the BEST ! ! I married one and she still surprises the hell outta me ;)
Author:  Marsh [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 3:26 pm ]
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I love the psychology too!! Good luck with her... "Innocent girls" F••• the BEST ! ! I married one and she still surprises the hell outta me ;)
Haha well played! Lucky guy :wink: :lol:
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