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Author:  Quazar [ Tue Sep 21, 2010 7:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Sarging alone
Hi! I'm Quazar, an rAFC going all the way to the top, and I'm not going to stop at the second largest peak :)

Gonna introduce myself soon, but I have some quick questions before that:

The PUA community in my home country is not very advanced, and my social circle is not too large SPAM. I'm trying to expand it, but it's not easy... my best friend and my other friend left to study abroad, and I have nobody to sarge with.

1. Are there any proven (and relatively fast) methods to expand your circle? Where do I look? What do I say to not come across as creepy or needy?

2. Until then, are there any tips for sarging alone? How do I keep my initial energy? Anybody ever tried this before? I've heard Mystery did, but still, I'd welcome a few pointers.

Thanks for helping me out guys, godspeed.
Author:  kilativ15 [ Tue Sep 21, 2010 7:49 pm ]
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Unfortunately theres no easy way into it, or quick methods. Look for a few methods and check out some of Gamblers Kino techniques!
Author:  Keksman [ Tue Sep 21, 2010 8:49 pm ]
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1. Just go out and approach sets and guys as well as girls. I only run natural game, and find that if you radiate charisma and come off as fun, girls and other guys will approach you (so you can expand your circle). Whether dudes wanna mooch off your success or are just being friendly, it's a good way of making friends.

2. Just go out with confidence, be totally fine being at the bar by yourself. Instead of being insecure because others will think you have no friends, you need to realize that others will admire/envy you for being able to go out by yourself. I usually put myself in a good/outgoing mood beforehand, and once I've chatted up a few sets (whether I have an agenda or not) I naturally get into it. It's taking the first step that's the hardest.

Just go and do it, there's no magic at work here. Just don't try to use any canned material.
Author:  TheDirectGame [ Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:39 pm ]
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I agree completely with keksman - it can be hard to sarge by yourself when you begin. But you just have to do it - practice makes perfect.. Go out there with charisma, charm and balls. Just have fun and enjoy the night, don't' focus on techniques, 'micro-calibration', because when you are having fun in the moment - you are the alpha male and you will be the life of the party.

So, enjoy it!
Author:  Defy [ Tue Sep 21, 2010 10:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Sarging alone
Quote:
Hi! I'm Quazar, an rAFC going all the way to the top, and I'm not going to stop at the second largest peak :)

Gonna introduce myself soon, but I have some quick questions before that:

The PUA community in my home country is not very advanced, and my social circle is not too large SPAM. I'm trying to expand it, but it's not easy... my best friend and my other friend left to study abroad, and I have nobody to sarge with.

1. Are there any proven (and relatively fast) methods to expand your circle? Where do I look? What do I say to not come across as creepy or needy?

2. Until then, are there any tips for sarging alone? How do I keep my initial energy? Anybody ever tried this before? I've heard Mystery did, but still, I'd welcome a few pointers.

Thanks for helping me out guys, godspeed.
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Author:  sman [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 12:55 am ]
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I have been sarging most of the last year alone, so pay attention.


First of all, make sure to sarge the same places. The more frequently you visit a place the more regular you will become and be having small talks with the stuff and with some of the regulars.

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1. Are there any proven (and relatively fast) methods to expand your circle? Where do I look? What do I say to not come across as creepy or needy?
Open guy sets. Which is extremly easy "Say.. what's the best way to hit on girls here?" try to have a small talk

With each person you meet be a GIVER. Don't ask them for stuff. See what value you can add to their life. Once establish, contact exchange is natural.

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2. Until then, are there any tips for sarging alone? How do I keep my initial energy? Anybody ever tried this before? I've heard Mystery did, but still, I'd welcome a few pointers.
check my blog, it has some suggestions about maintaining energy under state control. There is also a HUGE mass of content in "6 Fatal Mistakes Guys Do That Increase Approach Anxiety". You'll want that, especially for solo-sarging. The anxiety levels up a lot. Get it from my site www.puacottage.com and feel free to contact me in person for my tips.

I also plan more on this.

cheers!
s-man
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com
Author:  Quazar [ Thu Sep 30, 2010 12:14 pm ]
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Thanks guys, I'll definitely use most of this material. I'm from Hungary btw, and our circle has suffered a drawback in the last couple of months. What a shame. I'll check back later.
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