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| Author: | That Cat [ Sun Sep 19, 2010 6:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | American "rich kids" school |
Hi everyone! Here's my story: A year ago I moved to florida from europe to go to school there. Kinda just for fun. The area of florida where I live is very expensive and the school is full of very rich and confident alpha guys. In the begging of the year I was kind of a quiet and shy, mainly because I was going through a lot of shitty stuff in my family life. Because of that, my social life suffered and I failed to make friends and build any social proof. Here are my two main problems: 1. I made a bad first impression and I cant seem to make friends among the other guys. I worked on my inner game throughout the year and I am now pretty confident but most of guys in my school are super confident rich kids. A lot of them are really "alpha" (at least they try really hard) and just don't give a fuck. I remember it was really hard for me in the begging because they would all have really high energy, constantly talk. 2. I can easily make small talk and have a short conversation with less "alpha" guys but I cant seem to make a connection/rapport I need. After a while I run out of stuff to talk about, and there is this really awkward silence, when no one knows what to say. All the "alpha" guys talk about American sports, which I have no idea about, shit they did together and other super random stuff. Thats why I have a problem joining the conversation. They are all extremely talkative and extremely cocky. I am not. They talk CONSTANTLY. There are a lot of other Europeans like me in the school and they all fail to make friends with Americans. Europeans tend to be more calm, not talk as much and kinda have lower energy. I have absolutely no problem making friends with them. In fact back in europe I have a ton of friends and had a lot of success with "Game" and women. I worked a lot on being alpha, body language , behavior etc. And I am know pretty confident about my self, but I dont know what to talk about with those people. I cant make cocky comments like they do all the time! I feel that is somebody just gave a script of what to say I could easily do it! Please HELP! PS. I am pretty familiar with the game . I am good when one on one with women, especially those out of school. I can go to a party or a mall and successfully open and close girls. PS 2. Women actually really liked me in the begging (I am pretty good looking). They would often really openly hit on me, but I failed to do anything with it. Because of all the shit I was going through I was never in the mood. Now they stopped because I rejected them in the begging and have no social proof whatsoever. |
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| Author: | 870 [ Sun Sep 19, 2010 6:45 am ] |
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| Author: | That Cat [ Sun Sep 19, 2010 4:17 pm ] |
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THX! I wish it was that easy! |
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