PUA Forum :: How do I ask her to School Dance?

so this is how it played out. we had a firedrill today and we walked out of school together, i built up some kino, got playful, then i got really close to her and asked her if she had a date to h.c., she said no and so i told her ill pick her up at 5:30, what color is your dress.
She told me no. said we could do something else together. but i pushed a little, and she told me that her parents are so strict and shes doing me a favor. (I later found out her ex bf managed to turn her parents off of boys for good- so atleast it wasnt a lie). She gave me her #. I know she likes me, and i made sure i looked top notch today- i looked sexy, and acted very dominately.
I wasnt really looking for a gf, but just a date to h.c., im upset, not because i was rejected in a way, but because i wanted to go to h.c. with a date and now its too late to even ask someone.
If i go to the dance with a group, the group is 30 ppl +, without a date, will this lower my value? I mean the majority of the kids arent going w/ dates. but still, it would have felt nice if i could pull this off.
In the end, i was rejected for the dance, but # closed and could potentially date her-thats what she wants...i think- and now im going single and ready to pull a robbery on someone elses' date.
Questions:
1.Will going alone lower my social value?
2. Should i persue a girl who wants to date me, but rejected me (albeit b/c of a good reason)
3. How can i still have a good time at the dance while looking alpha. (how can i dance w/ all the girls i want to dance with even if they came w/ dates)

Author:	simplyenterhere [ Fri Sep 17, 2010 5:32 am ]
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hey guys, 17 yrs young. i know this girl, obviously attracted to me. The thing is how attracted does a girl need to be to go to homecoming w/ someone. Should i #-close first, k-close? Now the question is how should i pop the question? Im the cocky kid, i dont think i could pull off a rose and box of chocolate routine, unless you guys suggest otherwise. Thanks ppreciates

Author:	Trotyl [ Fri Sep 17, 2010 6:13 am ]
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How about, 'we should go to homecoming together, I'll pick you up at X' then shut up and let the pressure be one her (60 style (H)) You can ofc get close to her first (intimate zone) when talking and then pop her the question, well statement actually, don't ask.

Author:	ffwf [ Fri Sep 17, 2010 6:17 am ]
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You're cocky? Perfect. "Hey you, come with me to the dance."

Author:	Chief [ Fri Sep 17, 2010 6:44 am ]
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If you're in High School I personally recommend this forum: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdispl ... 94ca4&f=16

Author:	KristallNachte [ Fri Sep 17, 2010 9:16 am ]
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for school dances, i've always preferred the ridiculously over the top and original appraoches. but im also a hopeless romantic.

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Author:	simplyenterhere [ Tue Sep 21, 2010 11:49 pm ]
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@Chief- Thanks for the suggestion, but I do not really consider that forum due to the juvenile threads- they just talk about the changes their bodies are going through lol So the girl I am trying to ask, im almost sure, would say yes to me if I asked her, but the way i ask her is also important to the delivery. I dont know this girl extremely well or anything, but the attraction is there. The problem im having is that I cant find her at school. So tommorow, i have to ask her, i want to make sure that its tommorow. How can i ask her when i run into her in the middle of a crowded hallway- how to not make it awkward. Maybe i can facebook her and ask her to meet me somewhere or somethign, but im afraid it would be weak to do this and it would undermine my strategy of cockily stating that im taking her to the dance.

Author:	simplyenterhere [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 2:08 am ]
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not trying to rush replies, but a little time sensitive you know?

Author:	Chief [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 2:41 am ]
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Quote: @Chief- Thanks for the suggestion, but I do not really consider that forum due to the juvenile threads- they just talk about the changes their bodies are going through lol No, DJ Forums is legit I started there

Author:	FlabbaJabba [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 3:13 am ]
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If you see her in the hallway, "come with me" grab her hand and lead her somewhere less crowded. Then just straight up ask.. "Hey come to the dance with me", "Me and you would look good at the dance together, how bout it?", "I'm going to take you to the dance, I'll pick you up at (time)". It's just the dance, nothing serious, I'm sure she's hoping to be invited by someone because girls never want to go alone. Good luck man

Author:	Sharplin [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 6:53 am ]
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You're over-thinking. "Hey, let's go to homecoming. You seem fun enough to be my date." It doesn't really matter how you ask it or what you say, as long as you come off dominant and in control of your own reality. You know what you want, so you are going to take it, right? Good luck.

Author:	simplyenterhere [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 10:41 am ]
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FUCK YEA I AM. ill let u guys know how it went

Author:	simplyenterhere [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 12:30 am ]
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so this is how it played out. we had a firedrill today and we walked out of school together, i built up some kino, got playful, then i got really close to her and asked her if she had a date to h.c., she said no and so i told her ill pick her up at 5:30, what color is your dress. She told me no. said we could do something else together. but i pushed a little, and she told me that her parents are so strict and shes doing me a favor. (I later found out her ex bf managed to turn her parents off of boys for good- so atleast it wasnt a lie). She gave me her #. I know she likes me, and i made sure i looked top notch today- i looked sexy, and acted very dominately. I wasnt really looking for a gf, but just a date to h.c., im upset, not because i was rejected in a way, but because i wanted to go to h.c. with a date and now its too late to even ask someone. If i go to the dance with a group, the group is 30 ppl +, without a date, will this lower my value? I mean the majority of the kids arent going w/ dates. but still, it would have felt nice if i could pull this off. In the end, i was rejected for the dance, but # closed and could potentially date her-thats what she wants...i think- and now im going single and ready to pull a robbery on someone elses' date. Questions: 1.Will going alone lower my social value? 2. Should i persue a girl who wants to date me, but rejected me (albeit b/c of a good reason) 3. How can i still have a good time at the dance while looking alpha. (how can i dance w/ all the girls i want to dance with even if they came w/ dates)

Author:	Sharplin [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 5:19 pm ]
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Quote: so this is how it played out. we had a firedrill today and we walked out of school together, i built up some kino, got playful, then i got really close to her and asked her if she had a date to h.c., she said no and so i told her ill pick her up at 5:30, what color is your dress. She told me no. said we could do something else together. but i pushed a little, and she told me that her parents are so strict and shes doing me a favor. (I later found out her ex bf managed to turn her parents off of boys for good- so atleast it wasnt a lie). She gave me her #. I know she likes me, and i made sure i looked top notch today- i looked sexy, and acted very dominately. I wasnt really looking for a gf, but just a date to h.c., im upset, not because i was rejected in a way, but because i wanted to go to h.c. with a date and now its too late to even ask someone. If i go to the dance with a group, the group is 30 ppl +, without a date, will this lower my value? I mean the majority of the kids arent going w/ dates. but still, it would have felt nice if i could pull this off. In the end, i was rejected for the dance, but # closed and could potentially date her-thats what she wants...i think- and now im going single and ready to pull a robbery on someone elses' date. Questions: 1.Will going alone lower my social value? 2. Should i persue a girl who wants to date me, but rejected me (albeit b/c of a good reason) 3. How can i still have a good time at the dance while looking alpha. (how can i dance w/ all the girls i want to dance with even if they came w/ dates) Not too bad. You handled the situation alright. The reasons for which she rejected you are out of her control, so it wasn't a "I don't like you" thing, it was "I like you but I can't." 1. Only if you let it. Think of it this way: You're the bachelor of homecoming. You went alone because so many girls wanted to go with you that you couldn't decide. Whether that's true or not, you should go to the dance with that kind of confidence. Don't let being alone affect you. On the bright side, you won't be clung to by one date the whole night. You are free to do whatever you want to without any drama attached! I went to my prom alone, and had the best time ever. All my buddies went with dates, and didn't have nearly as much fun as I did (they even admitted it). Go and have fun. 2. Don't get oneitis. As a general rule, don't pursue her so long that you become upset about it. As long as it is an exciting challenge and you really believe that if you try hard enough you can get her, than it should be worth it. Otherwise, you are wasting your time. Look, she rejected you because of a situation out of her control. This doesn't mean she doesn't like you, though. If you can work your way around that parental obstacle, then you get the girl. Think of it that way. So yes, pursue her, but don't get carried away with something that you can't have, if it turns out that it isn't going to happen. 3. When I went to my prom, I just had fun. That's what alphas do; have fun, despite everybody else. If other people want to have fun, they can be included in your fun vibe, and as a result, you raise their value (and double your own). If people don't appreciate your fun or don't want to have fun, they don't get to be part of your awesome vibe. I danced with almost every single girl at my prom; 90% of which had dates. Most of the girls who go with dates are just going either as friends, or as a last minute "I don't want to go alone" kind of deal. So, if you go around dancing with these girls, neither the girl nor the dude really care (the dude will most likely be doing the same thing). So go around, do what you want to do, have fun, and dance. Have a good time!

Author:	simplyenterhere [ Sat Sep 25, 2010 2:28 pm ]
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thanks man, that was extrmely helpful. So how can i be the life of the dance, how can i dance with the girls that are going to be swamped with guys, and how do i escalate dance (its basically grinding, but if i want it to go further, how can i escalate the tension and then take her somwhere like under the bleachers lol). Is there a way i should ask a girl to dance, or should i just lock eyes from across the room, and make my way over and get on that?

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