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| Author: | here2play [ Fri Sep 17, 2010 12:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Turn your rejections and LJBFs into wingwomen |
Here is a little helpfull hint I picked up a while back (OK, it actually ended in an Fclose back in my youth) It is inevitable that there are going to be rejections and LJBFs as you go through life so here is something that can help you get something in return for your time and energy that you put into some HB that didn't close. Get her to be a wingwoman! If she wants to "LJBF" fine, that's great, friends help each other out and support each other right? So get her to work for you. -Get her to help you do a make over and get her input how you can improve yourself to make yourself more attractive. -Take her with you shopping for clothes/assesories etc to improve your style. -Have her set you up with her hot friends. -Host a party and get her to bring some of her hottest and coolest friends and have her help you set up the party. -Pump her for info on what she and other woman like and don't like in men. -If she agrees to introduce her freinds to you, pump her for 411 on what they like/ - have her talk you up to them on how cool you are (pre-selection and social proof) Not only will she be winging you and helping you score some other chicks but once she gets you dressed up the way she likes and sees other chicks responding to you, there is a chance she will change her tune herself. I have had exactly this happen to me a number of times. I was trying to schmooze a gal and got the LJBF so I got her to wing me and when she set me up with one of her friends and we all went out I ended up in bed with my original target and I still kept in touch with the other gal and hung with her too. The key is when the rejection or 'LJBF' is delivered do NOT react negatively to it or tuck your tail up between your legs and walk away. IMMEDIATELY WITHOUT PAUSE go into a "Wingwoman Recruitment Set". Have it go something like this - Her = "No thanks, your just not my type" or "LJBF" you = Dang it, I think you are really cool and thought we could hit it off. Listen, I understand I'm probably not the kind of guy your used to dating/fucking and I am really appreciative that you were upfront with me. but I am looking for someone to date/hang with etc and I bet you could help me find someone special. I've been wanting to update my wardrobe and get a little caught up on style, could you help me do a little makeover? Her = "Yeah, I guess" You = "Awesome!" You know, birds of a feather do tend to flock together so I bet you have some pretty cool friends or know some really nice gals that would like to meet a nice guy. Could you introduce us once you get me all polished up and looking hawt?" Bottom line is game your rejectors into being wings. Most chicks love to play matchmaker and since you are having her dress you up to how she likes guys to look and act the chances are her circle of friends also like that style also. Don't just walk away defeated. if they offer "friendship" take it and use it to your advantage. Another key is to do this with sincerity and do not expect to fuck your wing. It may happen but if she thinks you are doing this to get to her she will bail. Go into it treating her like a guy buddy with tits and try to meet her friends and game them with sincerity. |
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