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| Author: | greaten [ Sun Sep 12, 2010 6:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | working with all girls =) (need some advice) |
Well im back at college and what not, im working at a daycare center (chose it hoping there would be a lot of girls, turns out im the only guy). So yeah theres a lot of girls and i feel like this would be the perfect time to practice my game, opening, escalating convo's, ect. So i just want to know how to approach this since there are a lot of girls and only me, how should i approach each of them. So far ive introduced myself, talked about school and ect. But i want to go further than that, plus i dont want the girls to be like oh he's hittin on me, a tells another girl and the other girl will be like oh hes hittin on me too. What should i do in this situation? Also one of the daycare teachers there, she is pretty cute too, id say shes like mid 20's, and im only 21. I want to try with her too, any ideas for going about an older chic? Thanks, im totally at lost right now and dont know how to approach at my work. A lot of people are telling me to be friends with them and slowly go in but i need more details than that. |
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| Author: | Shinigaml [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 6:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: working with all girls =) (need some advice) |
Quote: Well im back at college and what not, im working at a daycare center (chose it hoping there would be a lot of girls, turns out im the only guy). So yeah theres a lot of girls and i feel like this would be the perfect time to practice my game, opening, escalating convo's, ect. So i just want to know how to approach this since there are a lot of girls and only me, how should i approach each of them. So far ive introduced myself, talked about school and ect. But i want to go further than that, plus i dont want the girls to be like oh he's hittin on me, a tells another girl and the other girl will be like oh hes hittin on me too. What should i do in this situation? Also one of the daycare teachers there, she is pretty cute too, id say shes like mid 20's, and im only 21. I want to try with her too, any ideas for going about an older chic? Thanks, im totally at lost right now and dont know how to approach at my work. A lot of people are telling me to be friends with them and slowly go in but i need more details than that.
Look, listen. You cannot go with the typical PUA approach, which is commonly used in places like bars, clubs, or public events. Those places have one thing in common, you will never see them again. As for your situation, you will work with them day in and day out. You CANNOT (I repeat) CANNOT game a girl like you would in clubs. It just doesn't work like that and you will get shut the fuck down by every and all girls there.Just like you said, if you try to game like that, one girl will tell the other and so on and so forth. You will be labelled by every girl as a player and won't get far there. Instead, trigger all the girls emotions, be friendly but don't be her friend (see the difference?). It might be good to establish one or two good friends there and even then, they might have connections with other girl 'friends' that you might like. If you cannot approach your girls at work, there is a serious problem here. At my workplace, not only do I know every girl very well, but they are all absolutely drop dead georgous (I know, it's unbelievable right?). And easily, I have some sort of thing with each and every girl. By that I don't mean a secret relationship, but how me and her (a girl) connect and build rapport. You goto calibrate, gauge each and every girl. Because they are different. If you use the same sh!t like, ESP, canned openers, and routines; the girls will pick up on this and think you're drop dead weird (I'm serious). Just be natural. And stop talking about school and boring sh!t. The last thing someone wants to hear at work is about more boring sh!t like that. Just tell her about some stuff that happened at daycare (I'm sure the kids do some funny sh!t there). I'll tell you this again, if you don't have anything better to talk about, just walk away and excuse yourself. You will only look more lower valued if you stand there asking "what's your major?". If you really want to have any chance with these girls, be natural and yourself. Be a bright light that all the girls are "wowed" over. If one girl likes you, then others will start to follow. Use pre-selection, social proof and 'prize of the room' in your favor. Look at the odds, you shouldn't have any troubles. If you are there to practice game, by all means go for it. But I guarentee the girls will pick up on this and you'll be outkasted by week 2. Hope this helped. Just be urself ok |
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| Author: | greaten [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 7:53 pm ] |
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wow thanks this totally helped a lot. Yeah i totally get what you are saying, work may be a perfect place to practice your game, like talking and escalating the conversions and such. One question tho, you said be friendly but not friends, i know some ways to avoid the friend zone, but can you give me some example to be friendly and not be friends? |
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