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| Author: | choccy [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 4:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Any chance of regaining her attraction? |
Ok, just thought I'd put the feelers out here, there's a girl I've worked with for a while, we became really good friends, and we both were really attracted to each other. I eventually asked her out, we dated for a few weeks, had fantastic sex (made her orgasm every time), she told me no one made her laugh like me, I'm the best kisser she's ever had, I make her so horny etc. She text me a lot saying she missed my cuddles etc. She said she'd had the biggest crush on me for like 2 months before we dated. Until one night came and I got a bit drunk and started getting a bit emotionally heavy, she said I was acting needy, I noticed a change after that, she cancelled our weekend plans, we had a work outing on the fri night after she'd ignored me for a few days, we kissed a lot and ended up going home together and sleeping together again, but I also remember trying to "make up" for being needy by being the opposite, probably a mistake. We had limited contact for a week, then I asked her out again and she said no, said something just didn't click and we could just be friends. I said I was dissapointed, but ok, and no hard feelings. I went into NC mode, she went on a 2 week vacation. In this time she's contacted me a few times, first of all to ask if I've met any other girls, I ignored, she then text again saying she hopes I'm not avoiding her 'cos she doesn't want me too. I replied few days later saying no, I was just busy and I'd see her at work next week. Today she txts me and asks if I'm working on monday, I said just said "yeah will be", she said "cool I'll see you then xx". Now I had fully accepted that it was over, I think the mistake I made was I fell too hard and too fast, and also being blind drunk the last two times I saw her didn't help. Basically we have to work together for a bit on mon/tues, just me and her, you reckon there's any chance of slowly turning it around? I am dating other girls now, but she is just amazing, I thought we got on so well and I'm pissed at myself for ruining it by being drunk/needy. I think the last few weeks of LC/NC have shown her I'm not as needy as she thought, and she's initiated all contact since. What you reckon? If I just go back to being the cool/friendly guy at work and not mentioning our former "thing" at all, there's a chance she might start to like me again? I'm also being rather stand-offish now, bit more of a challenge I guess. I suppose I should just keep trying to move on, that's prob my best bet of regaining her interest? I'll be honest, I like her too much to just be a friend, I'd rather have her totally out of my life than that (expect when I'm forced to work with her), even though I've only known her for a few months, I do have very strong feelings for her. |
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| Author: | kilativ15 [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 9:20 pm ] |
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Move on mate, itl be better for you. |
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| Author: | Rich123 [ Sat Sep 11, 2010 12:41 pm ] |
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Alright mate. I have been in a similar situation. It is very hard becuase you have feelings for this girl, add to this you work with her = a long time to get over. My advice is don't get too involved with her as you work with her. She told you that she preferred to be friends, so if she wants you that much let her be more blatant. Just laugh and joke in front of her and don't act needy. The ONLY way to get through this is too date as many other women as possible. In my situation I thought I would never meet anyone like her, however, I have met several other girls in her league (and more attractive - not just physically) and taken them out and had great fun! In my experience if you're having trouble getting over this girl, you're not gaming enough other high value girls - work on your game brother. Peace and good luck |
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