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Author:  pocks [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 6:18 am ]
Post subject:  Getting in bed but not closing
Hey guys, I just got back this morning from sleeping over at a girls place that I have known for about 10 days. I am kicking myself because we slept together in a single bed, but I couldn't close.

The situation: I am on an international exchange in Sweden for university. I met this girl 10 days ago at a night club. At that time she said she didn't want to sleep with me because she had a boyfriend in her home town. Since then we have hung out, she has shown me around the city, and we have met at parties and stuff. 2 days ago she texted me and said she promises she is going to try to sleep with me. So I met her at a club last night, and within 30 minutes we went back to her place. Her roomate was up so the three of us chilled for an hour. Eventually her roomate went to bed, and she said I can stay in her bed. When we were in bed I tried to snuggle with her and make a move but she didn't react. She said she just wants to be freinds because she has a boyfriend, and I seem like a really nice guy! I left first thing in the morning from her place. Any advice on what to do next time? Thanks!
Author:  Rich123 [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 6:50 pm ]
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Ok brother, this is my view.

You don't 'invite' a member of the opposite sex to sleep in your bed if your not attracted to them - I may be wrong.

I would try to escalate. If she kicks you out of bed, what have you lost? Nothing, move onto the next.
Author:  Chief [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 6:59 pm ]
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Focus on working on your sexual tension skills.
Author:  pocks [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 9:17 pm ]
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lol okay thanks guys, I agree I don't sleep in beds with friends lol. Today she called me and wanted to come with me to the gym, so she came and it was cool. Tomorrow we have a banquet for are school and we are both attending but not together. When I am at the banquet and she wants to dance with me what should I do? If I dance with her does it show her I am whipped? I was thinking I should dance with other girls and just keep it cool with her, don't pay her much attention to make her jealous? Then mabey at the end of the night head back to her place if she wants me to and push myself on her? Thanks for all the help guys, I just signed up and this is great!
Author:  sman [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 9:46 pm ]
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When in bed with a girl try tickle her.. or Pillow fight. That usually works :) Pumps up the buying temperature and then go for hard make out :)

Her seeing you with other girls is always great. We all love to cause jealousy =)

Best if she sees you talking with other girls and then when you dance with her try to do kino escalation. Do slow dance, make strong eye contact. Don't move your head when she look into your eyes. Look and smile. It causes tons of tension. You could also kiss her on cheek or neck. Hold her more tight to your cock and such =)

s-man,
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Author:  pocks [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 10:28 pm ]
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lol thats a good idea, tickling, def doing to try that next time. Okay yeah, ill sort of ignore her and talk with other girls and stuff, and then when we dance ill make eye contact and kiss her on the cheek. Thanks for the help, ill let u know how it goes!
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