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Author:  Onoma [ Thu Sep 09, 2010 6:54 am ]
Post subject:  Persistant Oneitis?
So, two years ago I met this stripper and fell for her. She broke my heart and left.

Last fall I met this hot asian chick and fell for her. She broke my heart and left.

Now, I'm dating another girl and things are progressing pretty well. For me, anyway. Haven't f-closed yet, but I did titty fuck her the other day and we've had phone sex twice.

What confuses me is that on occasion I still think about those other girls. No doubt the stripper and the asian were both special to me, but shouldn't I be over it now that I've found someone?
Author:  Shinigaml [ Thu Sep 09, 2010 6:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Persistant Oneitis?
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So, two years ago I met this stripper and fell for her. She broke my heart and left.

Last fall I met this hot asian chick and fell for her. She broke my heart and left.

Now, I'm dating another girl and things are progressing pretty well. For me, anyway. Haven't f-closed yet, but I did titty fuck her the other day and we've had phone sex twice.

What confuses me is that on occasion I still think about those other girls. No doubt the stripper and the asian were both special to me, but shouldn't I be over it now that I've found someone?
Maybe you're still thinking about all the sexual fantasies you've had with your previous two partners and since you haven't f-closed ur current girl, you have memories of your ex's. I suggest you fuck your girl soon and do it like none other. And then you'll have all your old memories replaced by a newly found one :)

That or, time will heal itself eventually.
Author:  Solteris [ Thu Sep 09, 2010 8:33 am ]
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I've always had this same problem. I vividly remember past relationships and sometimes ponder to myself how great it'd be to relive them again...regardless of how I am at the time. That conditions always aggravated whenever I bump into them or anything of the sort.

Best thing I can ever recommend is to fight through it. Focus on the now, and how you can keep this good thing going now. Be bold and try new and exciting things. Even if you still think of those past times, realize that you cant live them again and you have no choice but to move on.
Author:  Bormad [ Thu Sep 09, 2010 8:01 pm ]
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It is just because your having a similar experience to your last two relationships. Dont worry about it as its kinda normal. Just relax and chill really. Accept feelings are there but dont take the thoughts of them too serious .
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