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Author:  mordecai [ Tue Sep 07, 2010 10:24 am ]
Post subject:  Oneitis- strategy to seduce?
I'm completely new here. I got ahold of a copy of The Game last week and am half way through it, and it has really opened my eyes to seduction, and how women are attracted towards men.

I admit I am suffering Oneitis currently. I'm friends with this girl, we spoke online for almost half a year, and she finally moved to my area, from another country, to study. When we first met, something just clicked in my head, but I didn't want to start making signs and pushing myself on her as soon as she moved. But within a couple of weeks she said she kind of got a thing going with some other guy.

This isn't good, and I've been through a rough patch, but have pulled myself together over it. She hasn't been seeing this guy long at all, and she has said she is confused over how she feels towards him, it is not committed.

I know the initial reaction is going to be "move on", however I wish to attempt to seduce her. In this situation, what would you recommend? Right now I'm going to distance myself from her, almost resetting my mind to a point where I really don't give a shit how she reacts, to increase my confidence, and also hopefully draw her in closer.
Author:  Jelly [ Tue Sep 07, 2010 3:26 pm ]
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She hasn't been seeing this guy long at all, and she has said she is confused over how she feels towards him, it is not committed.
why are you talking to her about her issues, do not do that
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I know the initial reaction is going to be "move on"
yes your rational mind is correct here move on
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Right now I'm going to distance myself from her, almost resetting my mind to a point where I really don't give a shit how she reacts, to increase my confidence, and also hopefully draw her in closer.
obviously this will not work, Im going to not give a shit and I want to bring her closer. That is a contradiction. If your looking for real advice then stop giving a shit about her literally not I will for a while then she want me. If your looking for validation that what you will do will work then you are not in the place.

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I admit I am suffering Oneitis currently. I'm friends with this girl, we spoke online for almost half a year, and she finally moved to my area, from another country, to study
Your friends prolly someone who she gets emotional release from but wont give you physical release.
Here is the best advice for you. Be a fucking man, stop talking about her problems with her, take the lead turn the conversations sexual. if she brings up the dude dont solve the problem just says he's a douche. The first thing I want you to do is grab your balls and make sure you still have them, if you do then be the man your supposed to be that all men naturally are.
Author:  Shyler [ Tue Sep 07, 2010 4:21 pm ]
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I must dissapoint you right now.

It is almost impossible to seduce a girl while having oneitis.
And you told she likes this other guy ... so admit that this other guy was a way stronger guy and you have been acting weak.

Instead, read this thread about curing oneitis, it will help you.

big-topic-about-curing-oneitis-vt74280.html
Author:  mordecai [ Tue Sep 07, 2010 5:15 pm ]
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That is fair. Cheers.
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