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ok well here goes my first question :D
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Author:  HypnotiQ [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 8:06 pm ]
Post subject:  ok well here goes my first question :D
so.. ive got it like this, i dont really have a problem with,,erm how to say, hooking up with girls that i know, or know from before, it just happens if i want it to happen (feels weird saying it like that but its true)
:shock:
well...thats cool and all, but the real thing i've got a problem with, and wouldnt mind some help fixing up in, is how in heavens name do u pick up a random chick on a friday/saturday night out on the town. i mean, i see guys just walking up to girls and dancing with em and bla bla bla but that just doesnt seem to work for me :cry:
and its pretty hard going through all routines and stuff when ur in a club with high music -.-
well hope someone will help
Author:  sman [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:15 pm ]
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No easy answer my friend. There are different game dynamics. The dynamic of meeting a girl at street is different from meeting her on facebook/myspace and different from quiet bar and different from loud dance floor.

Each of the scenarios requires a different skill set. When it's loud you might want to be more dominant with your body language and have tight attraction material to say.

Like, you can't ask a girl who's dancing and jumping an opinion question of what to buy to ur sisters bday :)

There are some game techniques that address game floor game. If you need references, feel free to beep me.

I usually either lift them in the air, give hi-5, spin them, use other girls to gain social proof and do funny things on the dance floor. I like shaking my ass in a funny way that does not suit the rythm of the music. There are so many of techniques.

If you are only beginning learning game then I'd keep dance floor as one of the last game scenarios to learn because it requires you to be confident, interesting, funny, being able to move her from dance floor to quiet area, deal with her friends and other interrupts.. Easiest place is day game.. do that :)

If not that then go to bars.


s-man,
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Author:  HypnotiQ [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:20 pm ]
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hah nice.. well clubbing is normal weekend fun to be honest, but itd be nice to actually get something cool out of it. so yeah nice ideas actually, i dont have a problem with the hi 5's and all that. i mean i do that to chicks, i even sometimes start talking to em. depending on my mood and drunkiness haha, but its the after that part thats hard . but yeah thnx for the reply :D
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Tue Sep 07, 2010 12:15 am ]
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As others have said.. the bar/club seen is different from other situations and requires a different approach.

You also have to keep in mind that bars and clubs are a woman's domain in the sense that everything about them gives women the advantege. Think about it... all the women are looking their best, out with all their cock-blocking friends and to make things worse the ratio is often 2 guys for every 1 girl. Plus, you have to compete with these clowns.

You'll definitely need stronger body language and more intensity. And if you are looking to get a number rather than go home with her... I suggest a short dance (like one song) a short conversation to get basic info on her (name, where she works or goes to school, what she likes to do, whatever) then close it out and ask for her number. Just like in most pick-up situations.. the more you run your mouth the more you fuck it up.

I usually say something like: "I need to get back to my friends" or "I'm going to close my tab" then ask for the number.
Author:  Viktimize [ Tue Sep 07, 2010 2:41 am ]
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hah nice.. well clubbing is normal weekend fun to be honest, but itd be nice to actually get something cool out of it. so yeah nice ideas actually, i dont have a problem with the hi 5's and all that. i mean i do that to chicks, i even sometimes start talking to em. depending on my mood and drunkiness haha, but its the after that part thats hard . but yeah thnx for the reply :D
sounds like you just need to change your train of thought. if you do really well, with a girl you already have an in with. then once you open a random, you just need to treat her the same as you do with girls you already know. im the same as you, in the sense i can close any girls i already know. the problem for me, is my approach needs a bit of work.

personally i stay away from the dancefloor. Unless you have some amazing opener for the dancefloor, its mostly a waste of time. i was a doorman in the club for a few years, and i can tell you that 99% of guys who just walk up and try to dance with girls, either get slapped, drinks poured on them, or just plain told to fcuk off.
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