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| Author: | Paul Van Dyk [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 8:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Just did a facebook F-close on first face-to-face |
I feel I'm a pretty good Facebook sarger. My usual opener is Title Did I? Body We briefly spoke to eachother last Saturday, right? I've been doing very, very, well with that opener. However, I just moved out of state to a new city where I don't know barely anyone so I've been using this situational opener Title OMG!!! Did I... Body …make the right decision?? I moved from Dallas to Colorado Springs this weekend. I’ve never been here before and only know one person here. My company laid me off and I headed west. What am I in-store for? Do you like it? So guys... do you want me to cut/paste my conversation with her to see how I got my face-to-face? I F-closed her tonight on the day 1. She's an HB8. |
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| Author: | rename [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:36 am ] |
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do you use these openers on girls that you already know or girls that you randomly message on facebook? |
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| Author: | Fireball [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just did a facebook F-close on first face-to-face |
Quote: So guys... do you want me to cut/paste my conversation with her to see how I got my face-to-face? I F-closed her tonight on the day 1. She's an HB8.
Yes, tell us what was said.
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| Author: | Paul Van Dyk [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 2:14 pm ] |
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Quote: do you use these openers on girls that you already know or girls that you randomly message on facebook?
Completely random girls. Have never seen them or heard of them in my life. I do mass facebook sarges where I copy and paste the same shit. I can reach out to like 50 hot girls in a couple hours (I only do HB8+ on facebook). |
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| Author: | Paul Van Dyk [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 3:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just did a facebook F-close on first face-to-face |
Quote: Quote: So guys... do you want me to cut/paste my conversation with her to see how I got my face-to-face? I F-closed her tonight on the day 1. She's an HB8.
Yes, tell us what was said.Ok. I will Total time from random facebook opener to F-close = ~4-5 days. Facebook private message Title OMG!! Did I... Body …make the right decision?? I moved from Dallas to Colorado Springs this weekend. I’ve never been here before and only know one person here. My company laid me off and I headed west. What am I in-store for? Do you like it? HB8: lol... why would u move here? Me: I dunno why I moved here. I just got laid off from my job and didn't like Dallas all that much. I have a couple friends here so I'm hangin out without paying rent for now HB8: nice, rent free Me: medical equipment sales. How bout you? HB8: im a registered nurse on a postpartum unit Me: Yes, in the springs. you are too right? so how long does a mother stay at the hospital after birth? HB8: after a vag. delivery 24hrs to 2 days, after a c/s 48hrs to 3 days... know someone due to deliver?... u would prob. like denver u will have to go Me: r u in denver or springs? you keep avoiding my questions... HB8: lol... im in the springs sweetie... im laying in bed typing on my cell :b ... im fbing on my phone n it doesnt have the chat ability Me: Oh okay. I have an iphone so you can text me if you want 214-608-**** ...on to the text game... She actually texted me. I was pleasantly surprised. My text game was pretty much all just natural game although I will highlight a few certain points that I think are important. The first night she texts me we have a conversation late at night and she needs to go to bed. HB8: Well my tail has to get some beauty rest. Nice chattin... you have my # know and I'll be around Me; Nite nite termite I say this for 3 reasons. 1) It isn't the same ol cliche AFC sweet dreams or have a good night. Hate that shit. 2) It rhymes so it's funny and dorky (dorky for me is good because my game is heavily spiked with DHV's and it offsets that a litte). 3) Some chicks see it as not only avoiding the cliche "sweet dreams" bullshit but sometimes have taken it as a slight neg, saying, "You think I'm a termite!?" ... ok so I eventually ask for the Day 1. I didn't get it but didn't get a bad response. Me: Wanna go to Denver today? HB8: Can't today but I plan on it soon. I'll let you know when... I have a hair modeling gig coming up that I'm getting ready for. ... okay so after this, I have a pretty long conversation with a ton of natural game. At this point, I'm wondering how I should ask again for my next Day 1 meet-up. I decide to use my "slang approach." I talk with alot of slang. Either stuff I've made up myself or stuff I've picked up in one of the variety of states that I've lived in. It always gets girls interested and laughing. I tell them I'm a trend setter (DHV) and people love my slang and often times start using it. She'll eventually ask a bunch of questions about it and this always leads me into my very indirect "slang close." Me: ... blah blah blah, hearing how I say this stuff is how you're gonna pick it up the best. You'll have to hang out with me and hear it... HB8: I wouldn't miss it for the world. I can't wait to hear it! :p Me: Yay! Like Friday night? Or like Friday evening for an hour if you're like working the weekend? HB8: Ok, I'll let you know when it might work. Nite Me: Ha! Whatev! Nite... ...okay so now a couple days go by and I don't text her at all. I believe this is a shit test to see if I will bother her a third time to hang out (thus, seeming needy). Holding out worked. She opens me a couple days later HB8: Do you have plans Sunday? I'm ready to hear some slang :p This conversation goes on a long time. At this point, I'm turning the conversation very sexual. Pretty over-the-top sexual almost. I'm using alot of cocky/funny. Basically what I'm doing is creating a ton of sexual tension so I can be sure she's not doing this just to help out a guy that's new in town. We set up the plans for Sunday, and it is very clear that I want to fuck her and through cockyness, I've made it very clear that I think she wants to fuck me (without making her feel like a slut). We meet at a bar. Go bar hopping. I slowly escalate kino. Once she's escalating hand holding and pressing our bodies up against eachother, I turn everything very sexual. Kissing, PDA's, dry-fucking basically. Making enough of a scene that we have to go to my car because other people in the bar are getting quite disgusted by it. Once at the car, I get her home by telling her I really want her to meet my cat! It worked great. Brought her home, F-closed, brought her back to her car right away and dropped her off. Bodda Boom Bodda Bing! |
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| Author: | kilativ15 [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 4:01 pm ] |
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Heh, pretty great man, well done! You should make a thread with some practical advice on FB sarging. If there already is a good one out there.....¬¬ |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 4:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just did a facebook F-close on first face-to-face |
Quote: (dorky for me is good because my game is heavily spiked with DHV's and it offsets that a litte).
really? i didnt see like much dhv at all lolthe main thing that made this work was seeing opportunities and going for them unapologetically, not regular styled game. |
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| Author: | Paul Van Dyk [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 6:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just did a facebook F-close on first face-to-face |
Quote: Quote: (dorky for me is good because my game is heavily spiked with DHV's and it offsets that a litte).
really? i didnt see like much dhv at all lolthe main thing that made this work was seeing opportunities and going for them unapologetically, not regular styled game. I didn't really mean any DHV's shown in the above paragraphs. There was very long ongoing conversation via text where I had DHV's. What I'm pretty good at is spouting off DHV's without sounding like a braggart. I lead the conversation to where the woman has to ask the question and I answer it with my planned DHV in a manner like it needs to be said to complete the story.. It's usually about my career field or how often I hook up with hot chicks or the fact I went to grad school but still was a complete bad-ass. Stuff like that. |
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| Author: | Paul Van Dyk [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 6:36 pm ] |
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Quote: Heh, pretty great man, well done!
You should make a thread with some practical advice on FB sarging. If there already is a good one out there.....¬¬ I will. Eventually. My life is just really fucked up and busy right now so I don't get on this forum nearly as much as I'd like to. You're right, I should make a comprehensive facebook post since in my opinion, my facebook game is pretty damn tight. Alot of guys think facebook game is really hard (up there with loud club game) but I think it's quite rewarding. I open hundreds of girls on facebook and just by the law of averages, I get Day 1's! I work in sales and this has helped me as well as PUA has helped my sales. This stuff pertains to all areas of life. Either you're closing someone or someone is closing you. Since sometimes I can't get on this forum for a couple days, if you want my response about a facebook post, just email me, I'll get it on my iphone and get to it quicker (Lfloyd87@hotmail.com). Not to mention, this board on my netbook runs slow as shit as far as the processing goes. It's annoying as hell for me. The only other post I have on here besides this one about facebook is here how-should-i-approach-this-girl-on-face ... highlight= Get good at this bro. Essentially it's like going to a party where there is 50 HB 8+'s and you end up sarging them all in 2 hours. You don't find that kinda shit in real life. It only makes sense to me that this efficiency gets you more bang for your buck (minimal effort for the maximum payoff)!!! ps. Another thing that I think is helping me (although I can't really prove it) is that my grammar and sentence structure is nearly perfect. I tutored writing in college and I dunno if you've noticed but my writing is impeccable. I'm pretty sure this helps me alot. Do a search for author Paul Van Dyk and read some of my posts to get an idea about how I write. It's spot-on. Thanks. |
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| Author: | rename [ Tue Sep 07, 2010 9:26 am ] |
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nice work man..btw do u add the girls as friends on fb or just message them on there? cos i've always felt weird about adding randoms on fb, so i never do |
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| Author: | Paul Van Dyk [ Wed Sep 08, 2010 5:07 am ] |
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Quote: nice work man..btw do u add the girls as friends on fb or just message them on there? cos i've always felt weird about adding randoms on fb, so i never do
I never add them as friends until I have had a while of back and forth conversation and get a number of IOI's from them. Sometimes I'll be on the verge of losing the set and I'll make a last minute decision to befriend them so I can view her profile (if it's hidden to the general public). This way, I can hone in on a solid lead about something she has written. I'll take that lead and say something that will be very interesting to her. Even if I don't have shit in common with her, I'll look at something in her bio, not know what it is, google it, then talk to her about it like I enjoy that too! LOL.
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| Author: | Captain Morgan [ Thu Sep 09, 2010 8:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just did a facebook F-close on first face-to-face |
Quote: I feel I'm a pretty good Facebook sarger. My usual opener is
Are you in Denver? We need to sarge if you are!Title Did I? Body We briefly spoke to eachother last Saturday, right? I've been doing very, very, well with that opener. However, I just moved out of state to a new city where I don't know barely anyone so I've been using this situational opener Title OMG!!! Did I... Body …make the right decision?? I moved from Dallas to Colorado Springs this weekend. I’ve never been here before and only know one person here. My company laid me off and I headed west. What am I in-store for? Do you like it? So guys... do you want me to cut/paste my conversation with her to see how I got my face-to-face? I F-closed her tonight on the day 1. She's an HB8. Cpt |
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| Author: | Paul Van Dyk [ Wed Sep 15, 2010 7:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just did a facebook F-close on first face-to-face |
Quote: Are you in Denver? We need to sarge if you are! Cpt I'm kinda back n' forth between Colorado Springs, Denver, and Dallas. I'm in a transitioning period of my life right now and am all over the frickin place! Let's definitely sarge... |
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| Author: | Captain Morgan [ Thu Sep 16, 2010 5:13 pm ] |
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Nice, we are going out this weekend, so let me know if you are in town....Crazy weekend ahead... |
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