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Author:  MrHottie [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Set Up "Date"... Got a counter offer
Basically:

-> I told this girl that Im going shopping for my mom and she should tag along on Sunday (told her on Friday)
-> She said she might have work on Sunday and let me know
-> She texts me today saying: Sunday is a huge day for Ramadan and she'll be at the mosque for most of the day BUTTTT she's gonna go shopping with her friend on monday (back to school) and asked me to tag along...

Her text reads this:

"MrHottie! Ok ive got good and bad news... the bad news is that i told my mom bout tommorow and shes like how its one of the most important nights in ramadaan and we hav to go to mosue for most of the day :( :( sorry! BUT (yes theres a BUT) i promised ___(friend)____ we can go school supplies shopping (lol) at like ___(name of mall)____ on monday.. Soooooo if u arent busy u should come and we'll get something super cool for ur mommy :)"


What would YOU do?

EDIT: P.S. I do know the friend... We're good friends actually

EDIT: Did some research and I find out Sunday September 5th is an important date in the whole Ramadan thing... So it is a legit excuse

EDIT: I txted her saying "Cool Ill let you kno :)" and she responds back with "Ew thanx for the 6 word reply :roll:"

EDIT: In my text back I said

"Wazzup... Cant do tommorow.. Got frosh this whole week :D... Ill prolly go later on this motnh so you can join me then (The stuff i saw today was TERRIBLE!) and we'll have some mom-shopping fun (Y)"

She texts back saying:

"Lol okay loser watever you say.. but ur missing out on crazy school shopping :roll: .. good luck w/ frosh! Tell me if ___(university)___ has cute guys I just might consider going there lol"

And i just go: "Lol thx... Imma do it up naiceeee ;)" (avoids her test? ("tell me if ___ has cute guys i just might consider going there lol")) and kinda leave it at that
Author:  AFC Royal [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 6:53 pm ]
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You could always invite another friend to distract her friend.
Author:  kilativ15 [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 8:22 pm ]
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Hmmm, Id either be ''busy'' that day, or befriend the friend she brought with her :/
Author:  MrHottie [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:20 pm ]
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Thank you for your responses!

What about inviting a female (close) friend on my end? How would that work out?

Or if i were to go there with the two girls... How would I be able to single out my target (is it possible?)

Either that or I'd be busy that day and try to get her out again
Author:  Alex Hitchens [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:24 pm ]
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wow, your in a tough spot. id count my losses and be "busy"
Author:  MrHottie [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:36 pm ]
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Quote:
wow, your in a tough spot. id count my losses and be "busy"
Why do you count it as a lost :O?

EDIT: I txted her saying "Cool Ill let you kno " and she responds back with "Ew thanx for the 6 word reply :roll:"
Author:  kilativ15 [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:56 pm ]
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shes pushing for attention now :/ I dont think that she likes the fact that you gave her such ambiguous answer.
Id say just be busy on the day man, if you invite a close friend itl either be obvious youre trying to get her jealous, or might send the wrong signals.
Author:  MrHottie [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 12:10 am ]
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So what should I take this whole situation as? How would you summarize the situation at this point?
Author:  Alex Hitchens [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 12:15 am ]
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its not a loss persay, but i would be "busy" where you dont have to deal with the friend. if you could work with the obstacle, id say go ahead and go. its just what you feel comfortable doing.
Author:  marcus.villaine [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 12:47 am ]
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Look MrHottie ... from what you're saying it's obvious that she's not that sure about you yet. Girls talk and they want to have the validation of their girlfriends. So she's probably trying to do just that.

So you're probably still on phase one: Attraction. And this can be done easily within a group. I would use this opportunity to demonstrate some value to her and her friend with some cool stories. Actually, I would talk twice as much with her friend than with her. Why? Because a - you will demonstrate will social skills and b - you can hopefully start some jealousy there.

Be aware thou that if you agree to meet her on her terms, on the day that she wants and with whom she wants to then you will be jumping some of her hoops and unless you have some hoops of your own for her to jump through, you'll be out of the game. Make her do stuff for you like for example make her try on some skirt you would think she might look good in. Then after she does try it on neg her by saying that you were wrong :twisted: but don't be mean, smile. :)

Another important thing... be sure that you're the one that ends the "date" so you still have the control of the frame. Say that you have to meet "someone" in a while (could be a girl, could be a guy, leave it at that) and that you are in a hurry, so you have to leave soon.

The whole time I would look for indicators of interest from her. If you see three of them then you're in. Still, make her qualify herself to you after that. So you won't come across as easy to get.

That's all! Good luck!
Author:  MrHottie [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 4:24 am ]
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Quote:
Look MrHottie ... from what you're saying it's obvious that she's not that sure about you yet. Girls talk and they want to have the validation of their girlfriends. So she's probably trying to do just that.

So you're probably still on phase one: Attraction. And this can be done easily within a group. I would use this opportunity to demonstrate some value to her and her friend with some cool stories. Actually, I would talk twice as much with her friend than with her. Why? Because a - you will demonstrate will social skills and b - you can hopefully start some jealousy there.

Be aware thou that if you agree to meet her on her terms, on the day that she wants and with whom she wants to then you will be jumping some of her hoops and unless you have some hoops of your own for her to jump through, you'll be out of the game. Make her do stuff for you like for example make her try on some skirt you would think she might look good in. Then after she does try it on neg her by saying that you were wrong :twisted: but don't be mean, smile. :)

Another important thing... be sure that you're the one that ends the "date" so you still have the control of the frame. Say that you have to meet "someone" in a while (could be a girl, could be a guy, leave it at that) and that you are in a hurry, so you have to leave soon.

The whole time I would look for indicators of interest from her. If you see three of them then you're in. Still, make her qualify herself to you after that. So you won't come across as easy to get.

That's all! Good luck!
Wow that was a classic post bro.. Thank you so much for your opionion!! Its appreciated!
Author:  KristallNachte [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 5:23 pm ]
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she gives you too much credit, that was a 5 word reply.
Author:  MrHottie [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 5:54 am ]
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EDIT: In my text back I said

"Wazzup... Cant do tommorow.. Got frosh this whole week :D... Ill prolly go later on this motnh so you can join me then (The stuff i saw today was TERRIBLE!) and we'll have some mom-shopping fun (Y)"

She texts back saying:

"Lol okay loser watever you say.. but ur missing out on crazy school shopping :roll: .. good luck w/ frosh! Tell me if ___(university)___ has cute guys I just might consider going there lol"

And i just go: "Lol thx... Imma do it up naiceeee ;)" (avoids her test? ("tell me if ___ has cute guys i just might consider going there lol")) and kinda leave it at that
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