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Author:  foxiebond [ Fri Sep 03, 2010 9:56 am ]
Post subject:  This is where I always, always! get stuck.

convo now on text! this is the second day of texting. all going well mind! iv not met her yet either. got her numbr after chatting via an internet dating site (i was skint and couldnt go out!). anyway im now upto here.

Me: How about we meet at a london station, i can show you my train spootting skills, lol. x

Her: wow, sounds exciting....

Me: haha, i cant tell you becuase that would ruin the surprise, i promise you will love it.

Me: I'm hoping you will be able to impress me enough to want to go on a second date with you. If you want ill give you a call later to chat. it wont be a long one as im off out, be nice to hear your voice.

Her: (two hours later! when shes online and knoticed that im back on the dating site!)

how do you know you have impressed me enough to even wanna go on a date with you

Me: haha we are so alike its bad, neither of us will back down. bollox to you then, dont come out on a date. hit the delete button!

her: wouldnt wanner go out on a date with someone that gives up that easily anyway! :)

Me: not a date, that would be to long, i was thinking more along the lines of me waving as you went past on the train, hi, byyyyyyyyyye.

Me: your eyes in your pics are amazing, how about we start off with a phone call, iv got my son this weekend so even if we did decide to meet it wouldn't be right away, ok tich, the convo will be a quick one, dont want u to have to think to much do we!.


NOTHING BACK as yet. still it is late so i might have to wait till tomorow?

Author:  NAB [ Fri Sep 03, 2010 11:27 am ]
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I'm not an expert here, but I think you sound needy by keeping the 'lets have a phone call' question.

Although you did show a willingness to walk away ("Me: haha we are so alike its bad, neither of us will back down. bollox to you then, dont come out on a date. hit the delete button!"), but then you told her right away that you DO want to meet her. And when she doesn't reply to that, you start about the phone call again.

It's not alpha to beg for a meeting / phone call, because you meet plenty of other women ;)


I'll leave the advise on what to next to the more expierenced guys here though!

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