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| Author: | Rich123 [ Wed Sep 01, 2010 7:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need advice from someone experienced please. |
Recovering nice guy here. My life is completely different to 6 months ago and alot of this it attributable to stuff I've read on this forum. However, I have hit a big sticking point with my game and wonder if someone can give me some pointers. I am currently gaming 3 high status HB7-9 intelligent girls, I love intelligent girls. There has been lots of texting and I have taken them out a couple of times. I am not being big headed but they are all seem to be into me - this is thanks to the game / self development. Basically after a long drought, I'm looking to get laid as much as possible AND if I meet someone who is amazing I would want a relationship. My question is this (I have not been in this situation before). I'm looking to get laid, but I do not want to hurt anyone’s feelings (the nice guy in me). One has invited me around her apartment this week. I am attracted to her, but would not want a relationship with her. If I go around this girl’s apartment and sleep with her is she going to think I'm in a relationship with her? In this situation, should I be upfront prior to sex and say something confidently like:- Look I need to be honest and say that I'm not looking to get into anything serious quickly / I'm seeing other girls as well / Before we do this .... If I’m blatantly honest with you guys, I think that I’m reluctant about leading them on if I’m not going to want them after sex as I am scared of having to dump them later down the line - how do I do this? The AFC side of me is struggling with the emerging alpha side of me. So ultimately, my questions are:- Is it possible to have sex and warn her prior that you are not looking for anything serious? Am I being too nice? Should I just get on with it? How is it best to dump a girl? (even that sounds bad!) (I’m really struggling with this) Is this a problem with my frame - do I need to reframe? Many thanks for reading, PS:- if you point me towards any reading material I guarantee I will read it – thanks. |
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| Author: | Rich123 [ Thu Sep 02, 2010 7:23 pm ] |
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bump please. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Sep 02, 2010 8:17 pm ] |
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Sleep with her first, then have the relationship conversation. If you keep the whole thing casual she will infer what this is about. If she pushes you about being in one, say you're OPEN to commitment but right now it's not what you're looking for. If she feels that strongly then she should leave now (best to do this at a time when you're both having a good time, preferably at your place so it's more of an effort for to actually leave) otherwise let's just continue having fun and see where things lead without having to put labels on things and get too serious. |
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| Author: | Rich123 [ Fri Sep 03, 2010 7:47 pm ] |
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That's great advice, Many thanks for your time! I will put it into action. |
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